Life has taught me many things. One very important thing I have learned and implemented over the last couple of years is never judge a book by its cover. I would like to share my thoughts and personal experiences with you to help expand your thought process, perhaps the person you seek Dom/Sub/Slave/Switch/Playmate/Little/ Rope bunny
Has been out there and you missed the opportunity to get to know them better because of a preconceived notion or looking for that"type". Attraction comes in many forms. I am sure you have heard the saying "it's what's on the inside that counts"....this is true! I will share a Conversation I had with my Dom to give you an example:
First let me share I am a 49 yr old black sub/little
My Dom is a 49 yr old Mexican
I never had anyone from another race show interest in me. When I joined The Cage I had 57 responses in 2 days. All different races and countries, It was amazing. My Latinobrusier stood out amongst them all. I clicked on his profile. I studied his picture for a moment. I thought...hummmm kinda cute not sure though because of all the hair( yes he is super hairy) the first thing that came to my mind was what motorcycle gang was he in. Rotflmao, I can laugh about it now because it was far from the truth. I still continued to chat with him though because our conversation were great. I saw him for the wonderful man that he is ......and i am going to say it. That picture did not do him justice my Master is a hunk! The amazing thing is I didn't have a picture of me up at the time. He showed interest without seeing me. We got to know each other on blind faith. I must say when I finally did send him a picture he was not disappointed.
So i share this to say when you are roaming through the ads looking for that special someone. Don't be so quick to dismiss a possible match based on a profile picture or lack there of. Give everyone a chance.
Smootches
Indigo
