My Dom and I are both 49, I guess you would call that "Middle age". I call it in our prime. We recently decided that his Thumper needs a playmate....a "Bambi". So the search began. The ad went up here and a couple of other sites. Although it has only been about a week we noticed some very realistic facts. 1 most of your single ladies are younger and underexposed to the lifestyle. According to their profiles most have seen 50 Shades and think 🤔 hey i want to do that...This is aggravating. I like to think that this lifestyle is a natural thing. I feel I was born this way. For as far back as I can remember I knew I was different. I think i may have been 10 when I found my uncles playboy magazine and 14 when I saw my first porno. I have been writing erotica since I was 15. Not able to find the right person to help me explore how I felt. I was a young black catholic raised girl. That was a recipe for taboo all the way around. I ramble to say i believe it's a calling not just oh I want to do it cause it looked cool. The 2nd thing we have learned is most of the 30 and up crowd have found their Dom/Sub and are looking for a 3rd or they want a poly relationship. What happen to good old fun. Hanging out learning each other possible play time. Is this an outdated concept or are the single gals too shy. Just the rantings of a frustrated sub
