Good morning Indigo fam,
So I just got off the phone with my team leader from work. We have known each other for 12 yrs now and have evolved beyond the work environment. She even knows about me being in the lifestyle. She has had a rocky relationship with the father of her children for years.....but she keeps having kids with this man. She just had #7.......🙄. She loves the relationship I have with my Dom and wishes she had that deep emotional support and attachment.....but she keeps having kids with this man.....🙄. It got me thinking about emotions......
Emotional support is vital to any relationship be it vanilla or BDSM. I am not referring to sex or sexual acts either. I mean the day to day feeling that you matter. My Dom for example, I get a Good morning sunshine 🌞 from him every morning be it text or verbal when we are together. He knows what time I should take my meds and gives me a reminder. He is linked to my diabetic monitor system. When I scan he gets the alert. If it's too low he asks when I am going to eat. If it's too high I get 👀 followed by a text asking what happened. Being there when I have a breakdown as well as when I do something well, Giving praise or encouragement. This is the emotional evey relationship should have this type of care and concern. I always speak to my fellow sub, but I hope the Doms/Daddys/Sirs/Masters are reading this too. Ask yourself....are you giving this level of care? My subs/baby girls/slaves please don't accept anything less. We automatically give this care to our superiors. In my opinion that is part of being a good submissive. As always I welcome your thoughts...and I know he will read this so I just want to say I love and worship you Beast. ❤
Peace
Indigo