Indigolover{Beast}

Indigo Blue

This blog is about being true to who we are in the lifestyle we have chosen to live. I will encourage, entertain, and delight you all with poems, erotic stories, and personal experiences with me and My Dom Latinobrusier(Beast). Thank you all that follow me. You are my Indigo Fam.

Sassy

2 years ago. January 25, 2022 at 6:48 PM

Hello Indigo Fam,

Today I want to talk about being sassy. I can be a sassy pants sometimes, but I know my limits. The whole brat thing has been so controversial in all the groups I belong to. I think a small amount of sassy or brattiness is ok. Like a cat that catches a mouse. He likes the chase and excitement of it trying to get away. Letting it thinks it has the upper hand only to pounce again. I love predator/pray play with Beast. I have seen too much sass in some groups to where it down right disrespects the Dom. That I don't agree with. I blame 50 Shades of gray for this crop. The way Ana disrespected Christian is ridiculous. From the whole contact negotiation to the obey part in their wedding vows. Give me a break, subs please stop imitating this movie. Not really life behavior of a D/s relationship. This is just one subs view. Tell me what you all think about sassy subs or bratty sub which ever you want to call them.

Indigolover{Beast} - I feel that a Dom should have control. Ok so I am waiting on mine to jump in and give his opinion. So notice how I said give him opinion. If that was coming from a brat it would have read his 2 cents. Love make people do strange things. But Christian changed himself for Ana. She knew who and what he was and would bend. Even in the red room. She still was hesitant in the 3rd installment to obey. Of course there are people who will argue it doesn't matter because their relationship was vanilla with a side of kink and not D/s because she never signed the contract.

I also have seen in other groups subs call their Doms names like shit head and dummy. I would NEVER disrespect my Dom that way no matter how upset I was at him J/s

2 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - My thoughts are 1. The movie sucked. 2. She was disrespectful in how disobedient she was with him. I don’t consider it bratty behavior, simply disrespectful

2 years ago

ButterfliesAndCuffs(sub female) - I didn’t like 50 shades but my reasoning is mostly because Ana wasn’t a submissive at all. She didn’t enjoy most of the kinky sex. She endured being spanked because she was afraid she would lose him. He coerced a virgin vanilla chick into a pretty toxic dynamic. I didn’t consider the brat aspect but I guess you’re right that all the eye rolling and such has inspired some of today’s brats.
As for what I think of constant bratty behavior? I think it’s not real submission. Once you’ve decided that someone is going to be your Dom why fight him on everything? If he has to “prove he can handle you” or that he’s “worthy” every time it seems like a headache not a dynamic.
Playfulness and being sassy is fun but you need to know when to stop because all Doms have their limits.

2 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Never saw the movie, never cared to. I've heard that there was a book but I have no interest in reading it. The only reason I would even consider watching it is because all I have ever heard is how awful it is, and some awful movies are so bad that they are hilarious.
As far as what constitutes bratty versus... whatever, there is nothing left to say that hasn't already been beaten to death in 100 other blog posts.
No thanks. Not getting involved. I'll just sit quietly over here and watch as yet another post about this topic shits the bed.
💩

2 years ago

ButterfliesAndCuffs(sub female) - I’ll also say that it’s on the Dom too. If he’s dealing with it over and over he must enjoy it in some way. Seems a bit masochistic to me. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. 😉

2 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) -
How Dare You!!!
🤣😆😂

2 years ago

ButterfliesAndCuffs(sub female) - Gonna have some Doms taking a look at themselves. 😆😆

2 years ago

Indigolover{Beast} - Love the bantering. This is all in fun. Conversations are good to have. That is why I love my community! WytchyWoman you crack me up. Party on ladies and Gents.

2 years ago

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