Hello Indigo Fam,
I come to you today with a deep issue close to my heart. My 21 year old daughter was date raped last week. A friend from high school Contacted her and wanted to hang out. Not unusual because since the lifted restrictions of covid a lot of them have been reaching out and reconnecting. She went to his house, alcohol was involved, she said no but you can imagine what happened next. This is why I want to talk about consent.
It's important to know that at anytime you feel unsafe or hurt that NO means no. Safe words in Our community is a must. A real Dom, Damme, Master, Mistress, Daddy or Mommy will stop when a safe word is used. Even though we are the subordinate in the lifestyle dynamic we still have the right to say no if something isn't right. I am so over the predators in and out of the lifestyle. There is someone out there that wants the same things they want. Stop bothering or trying to force people to bend you your will. Please if red flags go up Contacted someone for help if you can't get out of the situation. My daughter said there were red flags when she was there so she shared her location with a couple of friends and my Beast. The guy brought her back home though before anyone could react. She has been checked out medically, but we are now dealing with emotional scars. Please if you are going out with someone make sure there is at least one person that knows where you are and who you with. If anyone else has a story to share or tips for safety comments are welcome.
Peace
Indigo
