Indigolover{Beast}

Indigo Blue

This blog is about being true to who we are in the lifestyle we have chosen to live. I will encourage, entertain, and delight you all with poems, erotic stories, and personal experiences with me and My Dom Latinobrusier(Beast). Thank you all that follow me. You are my Indigo Fam.

Lost

8 months ago. August 15, 2023 at 9:00 PM

Hello Indigo Fam,

Everyone that follows me know how much I love our community. We are loving and welcoming to all no matter what dynamic/kink we are involved in. Lately I have been feeling very alone....lost. The vanilla world and work life has me running on a constant. It's been hard to socialize or blog. I have spoken to Beast about it as our dynamic is suffering as well. I/we need to get back to basics. Effort has to be put in by both of us to make it right again. We had a small session last night that sent me into subspace. It easily absolutely fantastic....I was sooòo damn wet. I need more consistency though. Back to chores or consequences. Suggestions are always welcome from you all.

Max Heathen(other male) - My suggestion is go outside the norm... Think of small ways to involve kink. If you're voyer, take a quick pic of an exposed naughty. Use those break times to txt something flirty/kinky. Hell, drive to work without panties on and a vibrator in 😆.
It's easy to let life and vanilla overtake you sometimes. I just do little things to remind me it won't be forever.
Hope it helps!

8 months ago

Indigolover{Beast} - Thank you!! I will talk to Beast about trying your suggestions

8 months ago

Literate Lycan(dom male) - I like good Max's suggestions. I would add in addition to going outside your norm, work on your structure and consistency. You need to feed living things . . . and your dynamic is a living breathing essence of you and your Beast. Structure can be many things, such as Beast may "randomly" schedule an event (such as the outdoor escapades mentioned above. Or Thursday Night Subspace may be a thing . . how you and he achieve it is up to your imagination. But you may also need to cater to your vanilla side (or less kinky side) by a date night doing something different. Movie night; art night; music night. Find a concert or go to a Jazz Club. Wishing you all the best as I love you and Beast being part of our community.

8 months ago

Indigolover{Beast} - Thank you so much. We try to do a movie now and then, but I need more community bases activity.

8 months ago

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