It all began during my first marriage, I was twenty at the time. I discovered that I enjoyed being tied up and being dominated during sex. That marriage ended, because I was mentally and emotionally abused outside of the bedroom.
About 2 years later, I am married again by someone who had no kinks and was very demanding of me of pleasing him everytime he wants it without any regards to my sexual needs and desires. That marriage ended, because he was way too controlling and selfish outside the bedroom.
I had sexual dominated partners offline and online following the two failed marriages. Discovered that being a submissive is my true calling sexually. I discovered what my kinks were in depth and was able to explore that side of me which I am thankful. Unfortunately, those sexual relationships or the relationships didn't last like I had intended.
Currently, I am in a committed offline relationship to à man that treats me with respect and treats me the way I should be treated outside the bedroom. Our relationship is based on trust and communication. We have been in a relationship for almost 6 years now.
I was given permission by him to fulfill my D/s sexual needs and desires that he is unable to fulfill himself. He has given me guidelines that he has set in place for me to follow.
I came to this site to put in the effort of finding a Dom that is accepting and respectful of those guidelines that are already in place and my current offline relationship situation.
The need of patience is needed, so I can find a Dom that is compatible in what I am looking for in a Dom. I am not wanting a D/s online relationship that ONLY consists of sexual attraction. I am a demisexual and sapiosexual woman.
