Erotica from the north

Velvetdreams​(sub female) - Welcome! I'd venture to say most of us have different thoughts and interpretations of various things. But that's what enriches a community - variety! ? One of the beauties of this lifestyle is that anyone and everyone is welcome, as long as they are honest & respectful. ?

evergrey​(sub female){Ashigeru} - Hi! I'll bite, what is this controversial opinion you have?

Nillaw​(sadist male){Mal ♡} - It's not a singular opinion. It's multiple things. In multiple situations. I just have a though process that generally differ from most.

Nillaw​(sadist male){Mal ♡} - You know a reactive opinion. When someone says something. And you don't agree. Because you form your own ideal on something should be or look like feel like or how it should be enjoyed. And so forth.

You then respond to a comment. Or someone else's though with your own. That is what I am talking about. And my thoughts generally differ alot.

I also have differing opinions politically then some.
Or what I think about differing ideologies but this is irrelevant to the community and my contribution to it.

Does this answer your question ?

evergrey​(sub female){Ashigeru} - Yep, sure does. :)
My Master and I are on opposite sides of the spectrum, politically, so I know how stressful that can get!
As for enjoying things one way or another, my tea ceremony Sensei always asks, "would you accept a one-sided coin?"
Different people do things different ways. There is no one true way.
In a society or a community, the group does tend to have agreements about what is acceptable and what is not, of course.
Like, in the kink community, most people agree that consent is vital, and they tend to distrust and want to push out those who think they shouldn't have to have consent.
But when you get into a lot of stuff that isn't actually harmful, especially, a lot of the "that's isn't the way it should be" stuff comes from a place of insecurity.
I see a lot of power plays and passive aggressiveness happen from time to time in the online community. It really isn't necessary, and often, again, stems from insecurity. If someone doesn't believe, deep down, that they can built a reputation and attract the attention and partners they want by their own deeds, they'll try to sabotage or show up the people they view as "competition."
Some folks are happy when others find their joy. Some feel threatened by it.
Of course, there are also social consequences for things people view as bad behavior. One has to consider how one's behavior makes others feel, too.

Bunnie - Hi Nillaw, I’m Bunnie... nice to meet you. Thank you for explaining that because admittedly I didn’t originally gain a good opinion of you from our first meeting, but now that I understand that you were uncomfortable I can understand a bit better. I apologise for being a judgey mcjudgerson. I’m always open to conversation. There are many ways to still be a part of this community without going in the chat room if you don’t want, but if you do then just do it. Anyone can tell you, I stick my foot in my mouth constantly. It’s ok :) But you already actively contribute here anyway, I’ve always read your blogs, they’re great.