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My feelings, thoughts, needs, and reservations about giving myself completely.
3 years ago. July 12, 2021 at 1:45 AM

I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not having a partner. There are things I need and I can't do them myself today my biggest struggle is being a masochist with no sadist. Its extremely frustrating. Especially since I'm gay. I need a strong masculine female dominant in my life and I can't seem to find her. I need a irl relationship and not long distance it's so frustrating. 

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - There are things you can do . To help until u find ur dom
3 years ago
Sammilynn​(sub female){Robin Silv} - I cant do the thing I really want to myself it's not something I'm willing to do to myself bc of my past. I wish I could
3 years ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi} - I am confused because your profile says you are in a polyamorous relationship. No love there? Maybe it's dated.

Anyways, I would suggest you open your age range... maybe up to 45? An experienced Dom is worth her weight in gold. I would think in an S/m relationship that having someone who knows what they are doing, knows how far to go, knows how to handle a whip (or whatever) properly and isn't "just learning" on you, would bring you a much more positive experience.

All that aside, I know it's tough and it can be darn lonely. Keep working on yourself, love yourself. Become the "you" you want to be. There IS someone out there for you. Like Lifedimhere said, get ready. When you are happy and comfortable with your self, you will attract her to you.

Hang in. You've got this. 🕊
3 years ago

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