This February seems to be a bad month for closure. Early this month, a real life person I had been seeing for 6 weeks, abruptly ghosted me. The afternoon before, in person, everything was fine.
In the last week, I spent hours texting back and forth. In what seemed like mid-conversation ... ocrickets. 2 days later I sent a text ... crickets, total ghost
In the last week, on TheCage, I opened a blog and found I was blocked. No issues or problems that I am aware of, so maybe that one is a setting, since I’m not a paid member, but I wasn’t blocked before.
On the flip side, someone I didn’t expect suggested we rekindle a romance that was long over. We’re talking.
Communication isn’t always easy, but it’s relatively simple.
One finds a good time to share and communicates.
Ending communication is also simple. One sends words of closure.
(Except for some bizarre psychopathic settings,) that’s what mature adults do.