Sometimes we want something/someone so badly we can taste it.
Our search bears fruit and we pursue what is in our sights as the fulfillment of that desire, what we see looks good, and sounds good. We have chatted a bit about our desires and they are echoed in “true to life stereo.
The need to know more becomes a driving force, and we begin to ask questions, we are not sure how to interpret the answers we are getting but the interchange has been bearing fruit and we are feeling good about our new “relationship.”
The link above is a wake up call, it would be funny if it was not so close to home.
Some people embellish, some enhance, some downright lie.
My best advice is “when in doubt don’t”
Have a wonderful time in your exploration of the lifestyle if you are a new to it, the experience can be mind altering.
As long as you know that your mind is being altered, and you are ok with it, then enjoy the ride.
Understand that there are some who are capable of altering your mind without your knowledge or consent so if something is being said to you, or presented to you as fact, and you don’t know for sure, don’t let your mind or your emotions fill in the blanks, ask pertinent questions and if you don’t get good answers, or you are being patronized instead of informed, run like hell.
The least you will avoid is some heartache, that you don’t need, the worst you will avoid is...