It’s getting closer and closer to time to move in with Daddy. We’ve been working on our to do lists. He decided he wanted to get new carpet in the bedrooms my son will be in (he’s getting 2, one for sleeping and the other as a gaming room), and the spare room upstairs, so that’s happening next week. He cleaned out both closets in the master bedroom and put new shelving in them. I scrubbed the giant shower last weekend because well, he’s a bachelor and doesn’t really do deep cleaning. We got rid of the furniture in the downstairs bedroom that he’s going to make his new office so I can have the upstairs office.
This weekend we are doing the dreaded meet the parents ritual because both mine and his are complaining that we’re moving in together and they haven’t met us 🙄 at our ages, 48 me and 54 him, we don’t need our parents approval but whatever lol. We also got me added to the water bill and wrote up an affidavit saying we live together to then get notarized so I can have my ID changed and enroll kiddo in the new school. I packed up some things I don’t need between now and the actual move.
As for the actual moving date, well I paid the rent up until August so we have plenty of time. My landlord was nice and instead of charging me 35% of the remaining lease he just said he’d keep my deposit. Kiddos school ends May 22 and he goes to his Dads for 2 weeks and I figure I’ll move our essentials during that time. We will be mostly living with Daddy and coming to my place to get the stuff sorted, have a moving sale and finally have the movers get the furniture and stuff that we’re keeping.
And I am starting my new job on the 19th which complicates things for me as far as free time to pack but I’m thrilled that I found a job in his area so fast. I will be doing training for a month in a different area but then I’ll be at our local office by the end of June.
Dynamic wise, things are going great. I feel very fortunate to be his girl, and he says the same. We are peas in a pod and I am so excited to know that soon I’ll be in service to him 24/7. Although our dynamic doesn’t look like what a lot of people imagine 24/7 as being. We are organic, we don’t have a lot of protocols and rules because that shit is tedious. I obey him, I strive to please him, and that’s about it, although it’s way more complicated.