Well, Daddy and I successfully navigated our first holiday season together! We made it through all the weird extended family stuff unscathed. We got each other thoughtful gifts that were a hit. Daddy got me a very nice switchable because he doesn’t like me being vulnerable when he isn’t with me. Daddy gets 2 weeks off for the holidays and I took a few extra days this week so we’re going to relax and have no agenda! I’m going to paint a lot, I’m working on a large painting of a big moon and a nebula. I did a practice nebula today that came out okayish. I might do one more practice before I commit to the big painting. Daddy has been doing house projects all day and I did some painting, cooking, and cleaning. We have a chill life and I love it, we’re both so introverted!
Daddy took the electrical cord whip to me last night and fucked me like a whore, which was lovely. I’m hoping for more playtime tonight. He’s still very gentle and timid when it comes to pain lol but it’s sweet and that’s something I always stress as a masochist anyway, it doesn’t take a ton of pain to get those good feelings and it’s better to go in small doses than all out. Plus this way I don’t get drop. He is definitely getting more comfortable with it though. I’m sad that he won’t use a belt because he has belt trauma from growing up but I prefer Biter (electric cord whip) anyway. I do like variety though.
Anyway, we are wildly happy and madly in love. The next big thing for us is our 1 year anniversary on February 15th. Yeah, we just didn’t want a first date on V day 😂 I try not to think too hard about it but I wouldn’t mind a little shiny engagement ring haha. We will see, we did say that wouldn’t happen until we live together for a year. Maybe just something else sparkly. Like less committal but definitely pretty. I honestly don’t care about the marriage part, I just want a ring so men stop asking me why I don’t wear one. It’s such a dumb question, I don’t because I’m not married? And then they say oh so you’re available then and I’m like no…anyway, we shall see.