Thoughts

Hisproclivity​(sub female) - I want to like this a milllllllion times. I am over the memes of what “real dominance “ is and the blogs about how a sub should look out for a, b, and c.

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - Amen, to that! Direct and too the point...no misconceptions or hidden innuendo. Love it!

ShellyBeans - I feel it's whatever works between the couple or individually. There's no set way in looks or demeanor. If pal cant pin point just plain assholes from decent ppl they will in time. Experience and knowledge will come. We are forever learning xxx

Hisproclivity​(sub female) - Agreed each dynamic is different..we aren’t these cookie cutter relationships.

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - In my brief tenor here and the world of kinery I’ll be straight that those memes are over fucking glorified the majority of the time. To me they give a false expectation of what is and what isn’t. Do you get that shit sometimes? Yes...sometimes you do and it’s nice...but the fact is you’re gonna get a whole hell of a lot more struggle. Struggle to figure out your dynamic, struggle to do the right things, struggle when you do the wrong things...just fucking struggle. I’ll take a fucking Shadow Knight over a Paladin any days. I like to keep my expectations real...just sayin...cause I sure as hell no damn angel. LOL.

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - Kinkery**

ShellyBeans - I used to think that I should be this way or that way, a Dom this way or that. It's been different with each Dom. Each pulls out a part of me that wasn't there with the other if it makes sense. I like figuring out the dynamic together with no set agenda on how other of should be or look.

Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - Which is how it should be. You can’t have a preset for what is and what isn’t...people aren’t the same. You can’t tout individuality and being different while also in the same breath expecting people to conform to some idealogy. It doesn’t jive. Every relationship be it d/s, m/s, vanilla...whatever are all going to be different because we aren’t with the same people. Just cause you enter this realm doesn’t mean common sense goes out the window. I couldn’t love this post enough if I tried. I need love buttons up in this place!

rosethorn​(sub female) - Actions speak louder than words