Hello Cage friends,
So I have found that I determine the quality of my own blogs by how many words I put down. How expressive I can be. But I tend to get a little lost in some cases trying to explain so much and losing the point of what I'm trying to say. Many times I just write and let my thoughts flow into whatever they may turn into which don't always align coherently.
I would like to take a minute and speak on a theory that I have learned about in my cooking course and how it actually applies to the lifestyle of bdsm.
I am looking at new experiences, finding myself and growing within the friendships I have developed.
Most of all though this method of allowing curiosity to further our journey, allowing us to observe. Learn. Test and then repeat. It's the way we learn our s types. Test them. Find the ways in which this special unique and diverse person will react to your wish, your desire, your need.
Its about finding between yourself and this other how you mesh. How you fit together. Learning each other. Experiencing each other. Growing with each other.
It takes time, and effort. It's a slow process and yet if done correctly will yield unimaginable fruit that you could have only imagined in your wildest dreams.
I impart that you work at knowing those around you slowly, and developing this method of understanding. Observing. Allow your curiosity to further the experiments in which your heart desires and needs to flourish and ensuring that all the while this is the correct step forward not only for your s type, but for yourself and the dynamic that you hope to create.
I hope you have a wonderful evening, and thank you for taking the time to read my words today.