My way to Dominance

Recently I learned a valueable lesson from my Dom. In my previous D/S relationship submitting felt quite easy and I prided myself on being more submissive than most. It was a struggle sometimes but mostly it was fun and my Doms gave me what I wanted so being submissive was fairly easy and my mistakes were few. My current Dom puts more emphasis on personal growth and training than sexual play which is quite a challenge for me. Rather than giving me the rules I want He gives me rules that train me to be a better submissive. Its fun alright but also shows me how hard it can be to restrict myself from pleasures Im used to and really want because he doesnt want me to. Even though I failed quite some times he been super compassionate and patiently gave me my punishments. It gave me a new outlook on what it means to be submissive and deepened my understanding of the lifestyle. It kinda damaged my pride and showed me how much I still have to learn. Being a submissive isnt all fun and play but sometimes it requires so much patience and self discipline. Being submissive can be so hard...