In our relationship and dynamic has begun. The past 6 months have been an exciting learning adventure as we started as friends for the past 2.5 years. Now we have taken the time to really know each other in a completely different capacity, our likes, dislikes, boundaries, setting rules and the sort. Yes there have been some ups and downs, but the rewards have been worth all we have endured. So what is the next step you ask? Well we have two things that have been evolving in our life.
The first being our relationship OUT of the lifestyle. We have decided to take the next step and move in with one another. Now that has been an interesting task. LOL. The compromise, plotting and joint decision making to mesh our two lives together. One being Samoan, athletic, and homebody, while the other is spicy, on the go and very neat. You can only imagine how discussions and compromise went. I am used to being a proud solo person and having things the way I want them. Yes I know that is selfish, but again, you have to think of yourself and do what is best for you. Now there are TWO adults with different personalities and styles, joining together as one. So far so good, of course we have bumped heads, but worked through it and we are flowing nicely. Though I do have to climb the freaking bed, he's 6'5 and I am 5'4, might look into a bench to put at the end of the bed to help me up. LMAO.
Now on the our relationship IN the lifestyle. Well my collar states it loud and clear, I am in consideration, which I know will be a collaring ceremony soon. One of the fun mysteries I uncovered about my partner was that he is very active in the local and metropolitan scene. I have been enjoying our adventures to classes, munches and play parties. We both work on tasks and education opportunities together. We both have sat down and spoke about rules, boundaries, limits. What we both are wanting in the D/s dynamic and making goals (both short and long term) to work towards. I have been in dynamics and collared, okay some weren't exactly healthy. Yes I did have a couple healthy ones, but nothing that caught my full attention and on both sides, the work and dedication was not pursued. This time has been very different, we have started in a manner I was not used to. Slow and steady wins the race, and that is absolutely correct. I am excited to see how we will flourish and move forward.
Have a wonderful day and enjoy every moment you are given.
"All you need is the plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination" - Earl Nightingale
