to be honest, this is not the first post I am planning to share to you, but sometimes, the things unexpected happens. And yeah, one way or another I'll be asking this question. It's just the day has ended on a bad bad note.
we can't stop bad days from coming to us, fucking us up whatever opportunity it gets, and we have different ways on coping against it. Dear Dominants, submissives and switches, how do you deal with a bad day? do you bring it in the sheets, lashes it out in whips and canes? how do you still reign it down when anger and frustration wants to control you and go primal? do you tell your Dominants about it? can they be sweet with you? help you out? can we, people looking for a place in the world to be free and unapologetic of what we have and who we are, be polite when we're emotionally compromise? to tuck away the demons we deal with in our minds when bad days come?
I read in some website regarding the mental health of the people practicing BDSM lifestyle, that they are mentally healthy in contrary of how it is perceive by media and what the society thinks. It is an assurance for people who wander the lifestyle, but for people having trouble with the mind, it can be a bit intimidating and hesitating to come out of the comfort zone and interact with other people in the lifestyle.
As an observer and a submissive and someone who is hesitant and dealing with the troubles of the mind, I know I need a therapy, but aside from that we have different ways of dealing this (as I said while ago). Maybe the fact that my identity is hidden I have the guts and the confidence to share this with you, my reader, that I sometimes want to cope with my bad days through BDSM. I may be a sub but I am a dominant outside, fighting and breaking the rules, being that bad bitch, cause if you don't fight for yourself, then who else? but at the end of the day, I retreat to my walls and drain all the adrenaline and fight from me, and it always feels like something heavy and violent is taken away from you. I desire a Dominant that can put me down, drain it all out, the anger, the fight, the thinking. To just let me be his sub. Let's be real, he doesn't have the solution, no one does but ourselves, but we need someone who will accompany us on the way there.
On the periphery, O.
