Thoughts of a new sub

Why do we have to have a title? I've been struggling a bit with which title fits. Am I a Domme? sub? slave? truly a switch or just use that so I don't have to make a decision? little because I have a playful side? I definitely have a kinky side and like the power exchange. 

A few years ago I admitted to myself I have a kinky side and loved the idea of someone else taking control. I read a few books from the Gor series and came to the conclusion that I like the traditions and some of the protocols, but overall, not for me 100%.

I met someone who has helped a little by recommending some books to read.  They were good,  one of them was like "well no kidding" so I lost interest. 

I'm not one for thinking inside the box,  I'm more of a why is there a box? Who the heck said we have to be in a specific category?  

Which leads me to my next possible blog... how can we expect and accept the fact one person can meet all our needs? 

I've been listening to a book titled Playing Well with Others. As an introvert,  I find this to be challenging,  unless at work and I have to be around other. That part of my job can be exhausting . I get sidetracked...lol SQUIRREL...

What I have discovered is that other taboo communities have the same "rules" in the outside world. If I want someone to know what goes on in my head,  I'll let you know. 

Wanting to learn more about the kink community,  letting go,  and chatting with like- minded folks is awesome!  Right now I feel like I have a billion questions,  but don't know which ones to ask.

What I do know is that the color of my brassiere and undies makes no matter!  To those who have that as a question,  keep moving. 🙂

" Hi" -sub
"Hello" -Dom
... 5 minutes later...
"What color are your panties?" - Dom

A true Dom should not concern himself with the color of a sub's undergarments as the basis of a D/s relationship, just silly. There is so much more to us. If Dom has a panties fetish, that's great; have that be one of your kinks. The best and one of the largest organs to learn and teach on a sub is the brain.