Why do we have to have a title? I've been struggling a bit with which title fits. Am I a Domme? sub? slave? truly a switch or just use that so I don't have to make a decision? little because I have a playful side? I definitely have a kinky side and like the power exchange.
A few years ago I admitted to myself I have a kinky side and loved the idea of someone else taking control. I read a few books from the Gor series and came to the conclusion that I like the traditions and some of the protocols, but overall, not for me 100%.
I met someone who has helped a little by recommending some books to read. They were good, one of them was like "well no kidding" so I lost interest.
I'm not one for thinking inside the box, I'm more of a why is there a box? Who the heck said we have to be in a specific category?
Which leads me to my next possible blog... how can we expect and accept the fact one person can meet all our needs?