Thoughts of a new sub

I've been listening to a book titled Playing Well with Others. As an introvert,  I find this to be challenging,  unless at work and I have to be around other. That part of my job can be exhausting . I get sidetracked...lol SQUIRREL...

What I have discovered is that other taboo communities have the same "rules" in the outside world. If I want someone to know what goes on in my head,  I'll let you know. 

Wanting to learn more about the kink community,  letting go,  and chatting with like- minded folks is awesome!  Right now I feel like I have a billion questions,  but don't know which ones to ask.

What I do know is that the color of my brassiere and undies makes no matter!  To those who have that as a question,  keep moving. ?