So many broken ? hearts and relationships. Why is it so hard to maintain a solid relationship?
I'm not a marriage counselor, but I've been around long enough to see the common traps we fall into.
As in nature, nothing is random. Everything has an order, so with us, humans, there is a natural order.
Now, I know many will disagree, and that's just fine! I'm speaking from my experience.
While men and women have equal worth and value, are just as worthy of respect, generally speaking, by nature, men and women have different roles, and each benefits from the other.
Man is a natural hunter (provider) and protector, while women have a natural "warning system," and are naturally nurturing. Man is naturally, the leader, but what good is a leader without a faithful and skilled follower. There are a number of popular metaphors used to describe the natural order, but the one I like best is that man is a lazer beam focused on provision & protection. Woman is like radar, constantly scanning the horizon for trouble. When she detects it, she communicates the danger to her man who focuses his lazer beam on it! Lol
I've seen this in my own failed marriage, and in the relationships of many friends and family members. If those roles get out of balance or start to switch, the relationship suffers.
This fits well with a D/s or M/s model.
There are exceptions to every rule, but I'm speaking in generalities here.
Ladies, usually, if we give our man respect, serving him by honoring his desires and preferences, he will respond with the gentle affection and care we ladies often seek.
Obviously, no one rule solves every issue, but, its a good start.
What say you?
V
