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Cassiopeia​(sub female) - I totally agree. Unfortunately a large number of "Doms" don't get that. When they request too much too soon I always ask. "Do you want a sub that gives that to anyone that asks?"

Velvetdreams​(sub female) - Ha! Good reply! Thanks!

Master4subirl​(dom male) - As a Dom and have been on many sites. The whole d/s dynamic core foundation seems to be getting lost rapidly.
Now it appears to be about online and hardly ever actually meeting making it more fantasy than ever reality. I've spoken to and met many sibs and all have the same view the amount of time wasting demanding idiot Dom's is far too high.
Don't get me wrong every site has its issues but mostly the issues are the members .
Sadly it seems automatic demands from Dom's to subs is becoming the norm. With the so called Dom's crying they can't find a real Sub.

And as for the online collaring ..mm don't get me started

Velvetdreams​(sub female) - Thank you so much for your perspective!!! That's the thing and for those of us honestly seeking a real life change, it is a long term frustration to weed through the fakes and pervs to find a sincere Dom. And yes, sub's are just as guilty. Posers all around, but also different styles of Doms and subs. We are all unique, and D/s can't be put into a box, or a cage! ?

Bunnie - Everyone is looking for something different and this is a place where we can all feel safe in doing that. It's just a matter of finding the right connection for you and politely passing on those that aren't. The only way people can learn new behaviours is by being shown different options on how to behave. We all have different desires and that's ok ?

Bella duPuy​(sub female){Not lookin} - #BOOM
Thank you for putting into words, my very thoughts, mishæ. Merçí.

Velvetdreams​(sub female) - Thank you, HisAlone!