*This is going to be a full blown rambling rant*
Hahaha I really despise people sometimes like with a passion it’s one of the reason I didn’t do the whole dating/friendship thing in the first place it’s safer alone.
I didn’t always have a picture of myself on my profile for many reasons the top being safety I don’t know who’s on here or other sites that’s I join. Anyways so I decide to post a photo of the back of me giving a general description of what I “look” like.
I get it people have preferences and there is nothing wrong with that we like what we like. The issues comes in when you get to know the person everything is fine and then once photos are exchanged the sole issue is my weight? Which is confusing because 1. I talk about it in my bio on all platforms I’m on and 2. The pic on my profile is current and shows I’m not tiny.
My weight forever fluctuates in high school I was at my lowest of 120 ( which isn’t healthy for me) I have weighed 297 pounds at my heaviest. I suffered and still battle with an eating disorder. I’m currently 200 Pounds ( which also isn’t healthy for me) I should be between 160-180 but that’s life an eating disorder is a never ending battle.
I say that to say this yes this is the internet and it’s filled with all kinds of people but this blog really helps me get my frustrations out. If you meet someone and Like them for their personality and then pictures are exchanged and you are no longer interested to say you are no longer interested don’t express or point out why unless it’s asked then by all means but still try to be NICE. I’ll never ask why even when I’m at a healthy weight because my healthy to some is still “not skinny enough”
Anyways just try and be a decent person it’s easy to be mean it’s easy to tear people down it’s take strength and patients to be kind but you’ll be a better person for it. Words can really hurt people and just because you aren’t interested in them doesn’t mean you should make them question their worth.
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