Sometimes I get very stressed out and I’ve found the best way to relax is with a sub. They tend to be just so damn relaxing for me. Just talking to them and letting the peace and calm they carry soothe me. Recently I had a bit of stress because of work so I ended up spending the day just talking and playing with one of my subs. He’s a natural submissive and is always willing to follow my lead on everything. He doesn’t question me or try to fight me on anything. He isn’t a brat. I just felt so relaxed after spending the day with him. And he loved spending the day just hanging out with me. It’s like killing two birds with one stone. He made me relaxed and he enjoys spending time with me with my full attention on him. I wonder if anyone feels like that too. Just wanting to be with your subs because they are relaxing. No sex or anything related to it. Just talking and hanging out doing what you both love. I have to admit I’m obsessed with days like that. Just a meeting of minds. Talking about what you like or don’t like. Sometimes talking about politics(we share the same views on it) and not argue. Just letting thoughts and ideas flow without prejudice or fighting. We both tend to be a bit on the logical side instead of the emotional side which is great.
Another relaxing thing for me is this song.
I listen to it a lot. I can’t understand a thing it says but when I close my eyes the musical instruments and both singer’s voices are just so relaxing and soothing. I also sometimes cry a bit over the song when I remember what it is about. The song is based on a Chinese novel/manga/anime called grandmaster of demonic cultivation. It’s a great read. I will say though it’s a gay romance for people that don’t like that. They storyline is quite lovely too and has to do with martial arts and zombies. There isn’t a huge romance aspect because both guys are dumb. It’s a very heartbreaking story once you really see what is happening.