Highway to hell

Max Sterne​(dom male){Morley} - Wow, I like this perspective!

MelMell​(dom female) - It is a true perspective though. They just want sexual gratification which is what a one night stand is all about 🤷‍♀️

Max Sterne​(dom male){Morley} - I do believe you nailed it! 😁

indivision - Sometimes, the need to show your real self to someone who gets it is a hard call to deny.

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Sir Don​(dom male){Not lookin} - I agree with you . True colors comes out with the wannabes. This is a community of real people who live the lifestyle. The fly by nights offer unsolicited advice to people they don't know just trying to fit in

Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - So true...Sir Don...we here...are a community of real Doms and Subs...not the one nighters!

Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - One night subs and one nighter Doms....would do well together. That is, if as Zerospace suggested, ..they would be honest and identify this as their objective or desire. Problem is, they don't.
True Doms are seeking true subs and vice versa. They want to take time to know each other. Discuss more than just the playing, the sexual aspects, and the bdsm. Vacation subs...which I am not one of, can say all they want about seeking a Dom to own them, but they aren't worth consideration and indeed...could never be owned. The one night stand Doms. ..are no better. They care little to know and understand things about a potential sub...and so they are always quick to give up and discard. They'll never really own a sub.

dotson​(sub male) - I could definitely see your annoyance with these kind of people, especially if someone just up and leaves without saying a word. There would be nothing wrong with people who just seek the sexual gratification of this life if people were honest about their intentions. Like with me personally, I want to find a dominant woman who I can switch between the lifestyle and having a normal relationship with; I love the idea of submitting to a mistress, getting dominated by a woman just turns me on but I dont want to live the lifestyle 24/7. I think just as long as you can communicate with the other party what your intentions are, then everything should run smooth, and as for those who like to lie and deceive, they are just dirt on our shoulders and can be shrugged off.

Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - I seek 24/7 in the sense that I'd belong to my woman and know that even when we're out...enjoying simple interests and regular vanilla activities. ..she would still be the one I look up to. I don't expect 24/7 BDSM, because that's unrealistic. To me, this lifestyle IS normal, but what makes it far greater in meaning...is that 2 can love, share common interests and activities that typical vanilla couples share in the mainstream relationships. You are ever so right in 2 communicating their true intentions. For 2 to value what they have within each other. 😀

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) - Then they wonder why the whole lifestyle is falling apart !! When did we become Tinder ?