She thought to herself

That living feeling you get when life is good. When she  sat at his feet, and he stroked her hair, she was happy. When she cooked his food, she was happy. When he came home from a long day, she was happy to meet him. She would look his eyes and feel he adored her. He would watch her move and he desired her. To be your true submissive you need to have some string connection to your partner. You need to feel confident, this is gained from the love he has for her, the desire for her in his life. When your connection is strong and nuturing, you get great respect for the person you admire.  

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What I seek is knowledge, a way to search, cross reference. Always good to start at this spot. 

1. Recognize that every relationship has three entities - You, Me, and the Relationship.
Conversely, if there's chronically too much separation and not enough togetherness (which would usually signal a mutual fear of intimacy) then you should put more energy toward growing the connection and putting energy into letting yourselves be truly seen by one another.

2. Whatever you find most difficult to give to your partner, is likely exactly what they most need, and how you most need to grow as a person.
With the caveat of respecting your own boundaries, and being in a relationship with a healthy, generous person...
The thing that your partner most needs from you will often be the thing that is most difficult for you to provide.
Why is this? It's because we all subconsciously attract people with whom we have psychological healing to do.
This is a bit of a heady concept, so here's a quick example of what this would look like in a relationship.

Say there's a couple where person A is generous, loving, super-giving... and person B is great at receiving love, but can be a bit selfish and self-focused.
If person A's growth edge is to learn how to ask for help more and receive love, then it would be beneficial for both person A and person B for person B to progressively learn how to be less self-absorbed and become more thoughtful and loving towards their partner. Make sense?
So take a moment to reflect on what it is that you find most difficult to give to your partner, and see if you can find ways to begin integrating that behaviour, for the growth of you, your partner, and the relationship.

3. Remember that if real love is being offered to you, it will both build you up and make you more, and also prune you and remove what isn't serving you.
Love is a clarifying and alchemizing force. In other words, true love will strip away parts of you that are false.
If you are prone to anxiety or self-doubt or arrogance or procrastination... a loving relationship that is based on love of truth will slowly erode the edges of these things that are actually false cover-up's for aspects of you that you want to hide.
So when love seems like it's trying to rip away one of your ego's familiar defence mechanisms... allow it to do so. You (and your relationship) will be better for it.

4. Honestly check in with yourself, regularly, with the question 'How am I doing as a partner lately?'
Deep, transformative, soul-expanding intimate relationships are about giving. 
Have you ever heard the expression 'You make a living by what you get, you make a life by what you give'? Well, the same applies here.
You can have a fairly superficial, mildly fulfilling relationship by always being focused on your needs... or you can have a deep, beautiful, nourishing relationship by focusing on showing up and giving, and being more for your partner. 
Pour your love into them and see what kind of a life (and love) that gets you. You might be surprised at what you discover in the process.

5. Commit to being a lifelong learner when it comes to investing in your relationship.
Love is never a one-and-done process.
You can't go on such a perfect date with your partner that you never have to go on dates ever again. Just like you can't write one love-note to end all love-notes and then think you get to never do anything loving or romantic for your partner ever again.
To love someone deeply is to be in a constant state of giving your gifts... opening... trusting... allowing... softening. Over and over again. There is no finish line.
Worship at the alter of your partner. Both because they deserve to be loved fully, and because you deserve to be the calibre of person who is willing and able to love another so fully.

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I've watched the videos, read the blogs and I am opening up to a poly relationship. In my head I see a big family, all reporting to Daddy. I see myself assisting him with day to day tasks to run the household. I see a little one, boy and girl. I see a pet, and a slave who will cater to our needs. I feel home in this thought, which resonates comfort for me. Could I do this? Absolutely. To be in a loving relationship, with kink, and support, and the feeling you belong to something bigger, and you are appreciated because you work at being a better you everyday. Where your not hidden, where you feel love, where you can love back without feeling boundaries. Very interested in this dynamic on my path of growth. I am a strong mommy, heart of a submissive, who thrives to please Daddy. Who still wants to be kneeled at his feet while I take his tasks down on paper to handle for him. I'm still the little who loves to play and the pet who likes pet attention. But oh how I long to belong somewhere where these talents can be used for future growth so we are ever growing our family.

I think your sexy at any time Ms. Curvy.💋

What an exciting day! I seen lots, more than normal. The feeling I get when someone is asking me to order them around is erotic. I mean I know my place is always mommy sub, but I think I didn't realize how it made me feel until today. Wish I had someone to ask a million questions to. So I'm sharing with the world my little life, and the joys that come with it. 💋🌺

Can you guess my profession? 

I always thought of myself as a mommy, but I wanted to still be submissive to Daddy. But I would care, and love all the people of our family. That is really a line of leadership but me being me I would care, organize and enjoy kink in my all day, daily life. It's too hard to choose which one fits me best, so I'll say more mommy.

She drives up to her house after a long day at work. She rushed to get there to remove her work hat, and she gets to put her sub crown on. 

She goes in and changes right away. She removes her shoes, pantyhose, and skirt. They fall on the floor, piece by piece. She takes a deep exhale to know she's home. 

She puts her shorts and shirt on, Mommy time, checking in making sure she guides her family in a good direction, the house is a mess, where are those littles? I need help with dinner. 

She finds her smallest, there you are! Mommy's home! Did you miss me? How was your day? I see those dishes are in the kitchen, I asked for them to be done before I get home. Why wasn't it done? She looks up at me in the cutest little brown eyes I have ever seen. I run my hand down the side of her face, adoring her beauty. She says to me, I'm sorry Mommy, I had so much to do today and I just didn't have a free moment to finish them up. 

I reply back to her, you cannot play on your phone until it's done, give me your phone and go get it done. I need to start dinner and want that done. She slowly gets up and slams her phone in my hand which I was holding out in front of her. She stood to her feet and turned towards the kitchen. She whispers under her breath, whatever. 

I hear her whisper and it makes me angry knowing I depend on my little and slave to help around the house. She continues across the kitchen floor to the dishwasher. I think to myself, if I don't correct this attitude she will continue her bratty tendencies. I spoke with Daddy, he says to have a heavy stern hand on them. I am torn as I love them. It's challenging to punish them because I care, but I want them to listen, and know it's imperative to have cooperation. 

I decide the punishment was for not completing the task before I came home. I listen how she's clinking the dishes around in the sink. I went to her and came up behind her. She was startled at the surprise of me there. She says in the sweetest words, hi Mommy, I'm sorry I didn't get this done. I was shocked she was acknowledging her mistake, she felt bad, she knew I was upset. She offers to help me start dinner. I look into those enormously but beautiful eyes. I tell her good girl, I pat her butt and she jumps. I told her how proud I was of her. I kissed her on her head and tell her I'm going to check in with Daddy and I would be right back. 

I stroll out the kitchen and find Daddy is in the bathroom working on the shower drain. I turn on the light, in a slow seductive submissive voice, I present myself to him at his feet in front of the toilet. I kneel down to wait for his acknowledgment, then I open my mouth. Hi Daddy, I missed you today. How was your day? He reaches over kissing my soft, wet, lips. He tells me he's glad I'm home, and would like something cold to drink.

I rise, and go get a refreshing drink from the kitchen. I come back to the bathroom after checking on my littles chore of loading the dishwasher. She's almost done. It brings happiness to me to have help running a household. 

I return to the bathroom, place Daddy's drink by the sink on the counter next to where he was working. He replies, thank you baby girl, Daddy's parched. I reach for it to hand to Daddy. He asks what's for dinner? I replied, I was thinking burger patties with bacon,and a salad. Does that sound good? He replies only with a mmnnnnnnnmmmmmmmm. I raise up off the floor and tell him, consider it done. 

My pet comes home from school, he's always willing to help Mommy. He kisses my cheek as he goes to his room to put his back pack down. I ask how his school day went? He's getting his associates degree in finance. His brain is so hot I lose it sometimes when he reads to me. He offers to help, I take him up on it. 

I go into the kitchen, opening the fridge and pulling out the patties Daddy prepared while I was at work. I feel loved when I see the plate on the shelf in the kitchen. He did this for me. It's the little things that bring me joy. I continue to cook and serve. After dinner my little and pet are going to play in the tournament of one of their social groups in town so they may be late. Daddy has set a midnight curfew, so I don't worry about them. Another form of his love to me. I might be able to get away with catching a movie with Daddy... Happy, happy. 💋

Being arrogant is so not attractive. Being strong, secure, that's hot! Being a strong minded man with oh so naughty thoughts is such a turn on. 🌺