So along the way on my journey, I started talking with a couple, or rather the Sir of the couple. Yes, yes, I know, I know, I found myself getting to know one half of an existing D/s relationship. That’s how they wanted it, Sir was the hunter and she was the bait(that’s how he put it to me) Now I know that I am seeking my own dynamic, I was honest about that from the start, which did not pose an issue whatsoever. You see their particular kink in their relationship is that she enjoys watching him control and (for lack of a better term) fuck other women. He likes controlling and fucking other women. So match made in heaven there. They also have an oral only service sub, which I’m still on the fence about. So I’ve been looking for a Dom while talking to the D from the couple. He took the time to build a friendship, took the time to get to know me, took the time to just talk. Perimeters were set, I knew the boundaries they both had(ie I’m the friend they get as a toy), they knew mine(ie I’m their friend looking for my own dom but why the heck not have some play friends while I look, also really keen on being with a woman again) No issue whatsoever with my occupation (a no go for most with the pandemic raging) & today the stars aligned, or rather we forced them into alignment. Scheduling had never meshed in the past two months to actually meet on one or both ends. Today it did. Now it might sound strange, but I felt comfortable just going to their house, I mean we had established a connection already, and all of us were just tired of waiting for the time to come. I was nervous and slightly intimidated, I hadn’t been with another woman for 15 years, so wasn’t sure if my mind would translate to my mouth. I show up, Sir let’s me in and the games begin. At first I wasn’t sure what to do, he told us ‘on your knees’ and I was on my knees, then what, but all he had to say was ‘Don’t be shy’ and the next thing I knew balls were in my mouth and ‘play time’ ensued. The whole experience was surreal and enlightening and just fun. Their bond is strong, so strong, so beautiful, and I’m allowed to be a witness to their strength in unity. I also realized I REALLY enjoy being with another woman, it’s not a oh I might try it no it’s a I’ve tried it again and it’s a definite yes yes yes. It’s a powerful thing to make another woman ‘squirt’, lets you know you’re doing a good job, I think Sir May have seen stars, it kinda felt like he did. Now I didn’t orgasm, I didn’t feel the need to. It wasn’t about me today, it was about them. It might sound strange, but my satisfaction came from theirs. After we all chatted, drank water, hugged & then I skipped on out the door. Yes I will be seeing them again, it’s good for me to finally unleash myself instead of being so reserved. Mind you it’s an unleashing in a safe way, but also a learning experience, having a play only Sir with another sub I can talk to in person. Super chill, relaxed, real people, I lucked out with their friendship.
i do require some assistance tho.
anyone have any techniques they’d like to share so I can relax my throat more?
also
any solid techniques for ensuring I can make her squirt again?
Happy Saturday!
