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Hi there! ... I'm not sure if I will keep this thing up or regularly post, but I thought I'd share a few thoughts. Hopefully you enjoy it and thanks for reading (:

Just a heads up, I tend to write in a slightly horror / fear / suspense style, so if those things make you uncomfortable I want to warn you before you continue to read any of my posts.

I assure you though, for those who like reading and are in touch with human emotion and have the ability to think and see through the metaphors, every post I make here is directly relevant to BDSM and the lifestyle. Figuring oneself out, and learning things.
1 year ago. June 23, 2022 at 8:37 AM

I've been here a long time. I've been in other places even longer, and I've been this way even longer. 

I've met some great people, and I've made some good friends on this site. 

I don't know what happened, or what invited all this, maybe its all these "empowerment" movements and the rise of praising bad actions, no matter how detrimental they may be.

But over the past year or more theres been a toxin spreading through these communities unchecked. Some complain, some contribute to the spread, some don't notice, and others run. 

This toxin has a name, "dishonesty". 

All parties, all orientations, genders, identities, races, ethnicities, EVERYONE is affected.

 

- The amount of "experienced" men just looking for a quick kinky bang...

- The amount of women selling things...

- The amount of people not being honest in one way or another 

I'm using my phone, and don't want to write out a massive list, but I'm sure you get the idea. 

If you're new and trying to figure things out, then SAY that, don't say you ARE into this and that. 

If you're not a Dom, and just want a quickie with someone who doesn't know any better, go somewhere else, or figure out a more honest approach.

If you're just in these communities to "find clients": its none of my business, you do what you want. But some are here to find something with actual substance. 

I cant stand all the dishonesty these days, its driving me crazy. I'm starting to think that the real side of all this has devolved into finding a quick bang.

Do people still talk? 

Do people care about the connection? 

Do people want anything other than an orgasm anymore? 

Even if you DO just want a quick no effort blam, theres no honesty about it anymore. 

For all you out there that are genuine in what you're wanting and searching for, don't lose that. 

Honesty is a badge not many have, keep it close. It makes you unique, and special. 


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