what I mean by that is the sub that constantly texts and seems to talk the talk, but when it comes to doing the things, or making actual plans, there is a disconnect and complete lack of engagement. No ability to walk the walk.
why?
am I that intimidating?
do you fear what I might do?
it rests squarely on the subs shoulders and their ability to engage. Its the reason I take My time. Getting to know a person, what their needs are and how that fits with Me. I will gift My time and attention to those ppl who are deserving and work for it. Those who have the proper attitude and willingly consent to submit.
I am weary of ppl who constantly dangle their proverbial carrot in front of Me. Shit or get off the pot!!! I actually DO THE THINGS!! ask the many subs I have worked with over the years. The rabbit hole of attention with no action is NOT satisfying. Then there’s the reaching out to every. single. Domme. in the area. With the exact same fucking message. oh dear Goddess!!! how in the fuck can you become attached to someone if you are constantly throwing your hat in the ring with anyone who has a dominant label?? you are not being cute. That kind of sub gives the rest a bad name just like the Dom who really isnt.......
I am looking for Connection. Commitment. Loyalty. Dedication. jesus fucking christ-are those too difficult for ppl to comprehend???
Oh well look-its Monday.......grumble
