I am complicated. I have been in female led relationship for 8 years, so it helped me realize who I am in the relationship and what I need and want out of the relationship.
I need between the ages 25 to 49 (40’s are a person to person thing.) I really am seeking someone closer to my age. (I just turned 36 in December.) (I will discuss those out of my age limit in my compromises and hard limits)
I need a submissive boyfriend with a genuine connection.
I need someone who can handle me emotionally. Someone who is into me not just sex. (Someone who likes even loves me for me and can handle my mood swings and deal with my health problems.)
I need someone to awake me sexually and mentally.
I need someone in real life as I need certain physical element such as kissing, cuddling, spooning, and playful teasing. I want someone I can date: I love dine in or dine out.
I need a submissive guy who is into complimenting and encouraging, build up his dominant queen positively.
I need someone to have common interests and go one dates. (I want to be friends as well as boyfriend and girlfriend) Someone with similar hobbies (note: doesn’t have to have all of the same hobbies, but I would like to do thinks together that are not in a sexual or dominant nature. I am looking for someone to be able to talk to me about something. I really enjoy a decent conversation.) . . . My hobbies: Writing, Blogging, Publishing, Cooking, Baking, sports: volleyball, American football, basketball, and baseball, and would like to learn about hockey, WWE, Japanese wrestling, Vampire the Masquerade, Card and Board games, Movies, Music, You Tube, Traveling, Paganism, Candles, Tarot, Ghost Haunting, Cats, Dinner Parties, BBQs, Walking, Reading, and Chatting.
I want a guy who has hobbies and interests. I love when he is passionate about something and wants to show me. I want him to have hopes and dreams and not be a mindless puppet.
I need a reader. (Please request and read my blog and learn about me. I also want him to write and comment about my other works.)
(I rather just cook, and make a huge spread for a sports game (I like basketball, volleyball, baseball, football and hockey. Or be casual have a movie or game night. I like board, card and dice RPG.)
I need a submissive boyfriend who is into me control majority of daily things. I am into micromanagement controlling the daily activities, budget, allowance, menu, grocery shopping, bills, errands, chores etc. (Note: I will NOT control bathroom, issues. . . your own body should tell you went to go to the bathroom.)
I need a submissive boyfriend who drives, likes cats, cleans, works, and sometimes cooks.
I want a guy who understand I cannot have sex until I find a solution to my very painful health problems. I am currently turned off. (Health issues are bad. What really makes me complicated, I’m current not into sex. When I orgasm it causes pelvic cramps and sometimes I bleed that can last for days. I’m seeing a few doctors about it, and I’m currently weighing out my options. I can’t have kids and don’t want them.)
I want a guy I can work out an orgasm schedule with him, in which he earns a supervised release. I was into chastity, but my submissive boyfriend can earn release and play time. (I have blogs about it, but I have learned that long chastity can cause prostate issues. I do NOT want to injure my submissive boyfriend, but I do NOT want him going behind my back and finding ways cum or people to cum with. If he does release, it will be earned and supervised. It would be a date night in which he would have to make me in a very pleasant mood. His release will be my choice. I am into giving very light bondage and sometimes pegging.)