I'm only on okcupid, because I like to answer the questions, I'm over 1,500 questions. I also enjoy surveys and questionnaires.
Sometimes, I will answer back to other people if we star each other (I'm not saying like, because when you star a profile, it means interested, not necessarily like). Even on "normal" dating sites, it is still full of those guys who just want to screw and screw the girl over as they get their kicks off with a stranger. Usually when I say I cannot enjoy sex (due to my health issues as most of blog readers already know), it ends the conversation with "Sorry, but I need sex."
This current guy wants me to tell him when to get off. (I have gotten similar things on this site, fetlife, and collarspace.) My question. . . what enjoyment, release, excitement, pleasure do I get out of telling you when to cum? (I cannot cum myself so it makes NO sense.) When I was in FLR my enjoyment came from when I told my ex when do chores, to go shopping with me, when I gave him an allowance after I paid all of the bills. (Sometimes he had to save for something he wanted or he had to decide if wanted one thing or another, because of how much money he had. Yes, I wish he had made more because I was budgeting two people on SSI budget, for number people less than 750 a month. We went out once if we were lucky. We had to save and sacrifice for months for him to get a new video game unit. yes, he was good submissive boyfriend and did deserve the unit. He didn't want me to work, because I didn't have the energy to stand for a long period of time due to anemia and vitamin deficiencies.)
When I told the guy who wanted to "get-off" on demand about where my true turn-ons lie, he said I was just after the money. If I was just after the damn money, I would be seeking jerk CEO who just shuttle money while they screw over six other thinner dumb girls.
I want a guy who wants me, I don't dress up, I don't up on make-up, I will tell you yes or no if you can do your activities, you need to earn a good time. I'm sick of people telling me it's about the money, but I just want to know I am secure will my bills and I comfortable enough that I can almost support my feline fur babies.
I am so sick of every guy putting dominance with just sex. I also sick of guy think long term chastity is good idea, it can cause the cell to turn into cancer and cause other extreme problems, releasing cum is natural thing. However it should be earned, and I should get somethings that give me a release and/or pleasure in exchange. Why is this so hard to understand?
