Ways to Piss me off
Ignore/Ghost/Delete without telling me why?
It is childish.
Be an adult and give someone closure.
Please tell me why? It doesn’t mean I will change, but I just want to know what trivial reason you didn’t like someone has generous as me.
I want the opportunity to tell you “good bye” or “Good luck” or kiss my ass. . .
Call me “Lazy” or “Unrealistic” for the way I work
I have two set times in which I usually write the most . . . noon to 4pm or 11pm to 5am. I usually write one or other, not usually both. (I edit between the hours 7am and noon, but only if I sleep at least 7 decent hours.) I have been averaging 20,000 to 40,0000 words per month.
Not Supporting my writing dream
This goes with the previous point. . . I can clean a house, make dinner, work 8 hours at a register, and nothing feels accomplished unless I have written that day.
I am a writer first, if I don’t write even through swelling and pain, then I have accomplished nothing throughout the day.
Or saying I’m not professional, I try my best.
If you cannot support that or think I write too much, then please move on. (You don’t deserve the goods.)
Not accepting “No” or taking rejection
I’m picky. I refuse to settle. I have had experience in many of the area that I am interested in sexually, and relationship wise. I want a in real life submissive boyfriend who is loyal and can handle my emotional issues, for a long term female led relationship, possible female led marriage.
If we are strictly platonic friends, then please don’t bring up sex, or that you want to “sleep with me.”
I am NOT looking for online relationship, flings, FWB, or one night stands.
There are 7.6 billion people in this world, half of them are female . . . please simply seek someone if I say “No.”
If you need closure, then I understand, but please be decent.
I am NOT Seeking to be used for release or “just sex.”
I appreciate my erotica readers. If you get off by my work, then have fun. However I do NOT cyber or sexting anymore. I refuse to use Skype, KIK, Hang Out, Snap Chat or any other chat rooms for such uses. (Too many in the past only used me for a quick get off, that is just mean. They have erotica, chat sites, and porn for just such purposes.)
To get off and then ghost someone, is very mean and rude. I would even consider it mental rape.
I don’t mind chatting, but I will NOT get anyone off.
I am way more than a “fuck hole.”
Online Slaves
I am looking for a real life submissive boyfriend, not just an online naughty chat.
My guy to have some rights and who decided they want me, not to feel they are simply there because I am the superior.
I want more than just words, than just orders and video/pics.
I need physical touch. Please stop asking if I want an online relationship or online slave.
Dom thinking by chat that they can reprogram me
I am a dominant. I love control. I am planner. I am list maker. I am just a control freak that I argue with my muses (until they give me writer’s block.)
I am NOT a switch, and I will NOT submit. I will not change my mind.
I am determined to get the submissive boyfriend that I want and need. I do NOT want a dom to change. I want an experienced submissive who know it’s their natural state.
I am NOT a hooker, prostitute, or online freak show
I’m an erotic writer. I want to get paid to write, not have sex. (It’s illegal in most states, money for sex, not writing.)
I’m demi-sexual, which means I have to have a connection, commitment, idea of a relationship in order to have sex. (I do NOT just do one night stands. Please horn-dogs do NOT just offer 100 dollars for a night of fun . . . it’s insult. You would spend more at a poker game or a night of gambling or grocery shopping.)
I am more than sex
I am writer. I love to cook. I am artist. I have family. I love cats. I love football, basketball, and baseball. I enjoy music and movies. I like to read. I’ve played vampire, D&D and other games. I love board and card games. I can talk about more things than just sex.