1. How to approach me. . .
Bad:(These approaches have happened to me)
1."Hello Ma'am your deviant eyes make me horny . . . May I cum?" (I hate being called Ma'am, call me mistress or by my name, please. Ma'am is what you call a 50 year old widowed grandmother. I'm still pretty young.)
2. "If I pay for dinner, can I get a blow job or cum?" (I am a foodie. But I am not a food slut, please do NOT insult me)
3. "You wanna get drunk and get each other off?"(First of all, I do not drink. Secondly, I do NOT show intimacy with strangers. Thirdly, due to medical issues sex or just orgasms are off the table.)
4. "Once we meet, how long do you think we'll have sex. I need to know if I need to buy condoms."(If I agreed for a date, do NOT expect instant sex. I'm a dominant, not a slut.)
Good:(I rarely get these, but these approaches show me more interest and respect.)
1. "Hi, Mistress, how are you? I read your profile, do you really like football, who is your favorite team?"
2. "Hey there, I really like your eyes and I would like to get know you better."
3. "Hi. I am new about this lifestyle. Could we just have a chat about your exoeriences and what you know?"
4. "I would like to meet you, but lets see if we are compatible first."
2. I am not simply interested in just the sex aspect of a female led relationship. (It's actually last on my list.)
Bad:
1. Please do not send a cock pic before a face pic. (Note: I will not meet without seeing a real facial pic.)
2. Please do not ask when you can cum/orgasm/release online. (I don't mind writing stories online with a partner when I have writers block: they should have a good storyline and romance.However I'm not looking for an online relationship or no cam thing.)
3. Do not instantly think you are my submissive boyfriend, it does NOT happen over night.
4. If I am not the one you're into, and you keep coming back thinking you will wear me down and I'll cave in or settle. (I know what I want.I had a guy who kept coming back day after day for other a week thinking I would cave in.)
Good:
1. Please send facial pics before any naughty pic. (I'm attracted to clean faces, head full of hair, soulful eyes, and smooth chests, not penises.)
2. Please have a decent conversation with me. . . I have tons of hobbies and interests, and would like to find common ground as I feel you need it for a connection. (If you are simply horny and just want sex, please seek someone else.)
3. You contact me daily to see if I'm ok. You send my encouraging word, hope I have a nice day. You tell me of your day. We get to know each other (As I want a connection in my female led relationship, my ultimate goal is to marry my submissive boyfriend who gets me.)
4. If you're not into me but respectful, we can be friends. I know I am not everyone's cup of tea, but as long as you open about what you want and not rude, we can still talk.