I am NOT an extremely strict--Domme. I am a dominant yet sensual mistress who loves control. I want a long term female led relationship with a submissive boyfriend. I am not looking for a FWB or playmate. I need more than that.
(However I do have rules or strict guidlines like every dominant should.)
1. Communication is a demand. (I want a submissive boyfriend who wants give his control to me. I want them to use their free will to make their own decision for TPE.
Before any physical things happen, there will be discussions of fantasies and what both sides want, don't want, will do and won't do etc.)
I need to have a honest, open connection with my submissive boyfriend. (If something is not right, I want my submissive boyfriend to speak up. I also believe in safe words. . . Yellow means slow down or something isn't right. Red means stop action completely and echo means we need to talk.)
2. The submissive boyfriend must kneel in order to ask for any major requests. (Preferably in private.)
3. THE Submissive Boyfriend cannot look at other women lustfully unless they feel I would be interested. (I do not seek switch or dominant women, but I do look at the women's body in artful way.)
4. I want to meet all of submissive boyfriend friends, especially female friends. (I will not tell them he is submissive and can be done causal. However I want to know if anyone is going to want to steal him or cause drama. I will be willing to show all of my friends as well.)
5. The submissive boyfriend must have a job. (I don't care if he goes to school while working part time to find something he loves. I just want time for myself and time where he is financially productive. I am NOT seeking someone to just clean the house. I like a balance of time together and our own time.)
6. The submissive boyfriend must be fit or trying to be come fit/active. I want this for at least health and energy reasons. (I want someone who encourages me and wants me to be more active as well. I think more time being active, better health, and more exciting sex.)
7. I want to have similar interests to do together.
My interests are . . .
Writing/reading
Board, rp, and card games (I like Wii sports as well)
Movies/tv/netflix (cuddle time)
Cooking/baking
Indoor biking/going to gym
Swimming (pool only)
Shopping
Dinning out
Hanging out with family and friends
Mediation/relaxing (trying to)
Traveling
Chatting
8. The submissive boyfriend can call me the following names: goddess, mistress, Rebekah, sexy, babe, hun, dear (Do NOT call me madam or ma'am, I am not that old.)
I, the mistress, can call the submissive boyfriend the following names: Babe, his name, sexy toy or boy toy, dear, hun etc
9. The submissive boyfriend must text me throughout the day. (Do NOT text while driving or while actually working. I will hate have him get into a car accident or get fired for a text.) He must be honest, I will not put up with liars.
10. Sex with the submissive boyfriend will probably only be 20% of the time (this is meaning actually touching the private parts, penis, ass, vagina etc. This NOT count kissing, massages, foreplay of other parts, teasing or chastity etc.)
A. For every 3 to 5 of my orgasms, he gets 1.
B. I want him to read my blog and explore my body to find my turn on spots and things that turn me on.
C. I want to play and have sex more when I am happy.
D. I love gifts (romantic, practical, and sexy).
E. The sub wears a chastity belt or cock cage if he cannot control himself between sexual sessions.
F. I like romance.
G. Do not get fired for sending sexual texts at work, it will result in time time chastity with a chastity belt in which I have the key.
H. I like a mixture between romance and kinky and fun on my dates.
Just. I do like surprises.
I am NOT an extremely strict--Domme. I am a dominant yet sensual mistress who loves control. I want a long term female led relationship with a submissive boyfriend. I am not looking for a FWB or playmate. I need more than that.
(However I do have rules or strict guidlines like every dominant should.)
1. Communication is a demand. (I want a submissive boyfriend who wants give his control to me. I want them to use their free will to make their own decision for TPE.
Before any physical things happen, there will be discussions of fantasies and what both sides want, don't want, will do and won't do etc.)
I need to have a honest, open connection with my submissive boyfriend. (If something is not right, I want my submissive boyfriend to speak up. I also believe in safe words. . . Yellow means slow down or something isn't right. Red means stop action completely and echo means we need to talk.)
2. The submissive boyfriend must kneel in order to ask for any major requests. (Preferably in private.)
3. THE Submissive Boyfriend cannot look at other women lustfully unless they feel I would be interested. (I do not seek switch or dominant women, but I do look at the women's body in artful way.)
4. I want to meet all of submissive boyfriend friends, especially female friends. (I will not tell them he is submissive and can be done causal. However I want to know if anyone is going to want to steal him or cause drama. I will be willing to show all of my friends as well.)
5. The submissive boyfriend must have a job. (I don't care if he goes to school while working part time to find something he loves. I just want time for myself and time where he is financially productive. I am NOT seeking someone to just clean the house. I like a balance of time together and our own time.)
6. The submissive boyfriend must be fit or trying to be come fit/active. I want this for at least health and energy reasons. (I want someone who encourages me and wants me to be more active as well. I think more time being active, better health, and more exciting sex.)
7. I want to have similar interests to do together.
My interests are . . .
Writing/reading
Board, rp, and card games (I like Wii sports as well)
Movies/tv/netflix (cuddle time)
Cooking/baking
Indoor biking/going to gym
Swimming (pool only)
Shopping
Dinning out
Hanging out with family and friends
Mediation/relaxing (trying to)
Traveling
Chatting
8. The submissive boyfriend can call me the following names: goddess, mistress, Rebekah, sexy, babe, hun, dear (Do NOT call me madam or ma'am, I am not that old.)
I, the mistress, can call the submissive boyfriend the following names: Babe, his name, sexy toy or boy toy, dear, hun etc
9. The submissive boyfriend must text me throughout the day. (Do NOT text while driving or while actually working. I will hate have him get into a car accident or get fired for a text.) He must be honest, I will not put up with liars.
10. Sex with the submissive boyfriend will probably only be 20% of the time (this is meaning actually touching the private parts, penis, ass, vagina etc. This NOT count kissing, massages, foreplay of other parts, teasing or chastity etc.)
A. For every 3 to 5 of my orgasms, he gets 1.
B. I want him to read my blog and explore my body to find my turn on spots and things that turn me on.
C. I want to play and have sex more when I am happy.
D. I love gifts (romantic, practical, and sexy).
E. The sub wears a chastity belt or cock cage if he cannot control himself between sexual sessions.
F. I like romance.
G. Do not get fired for sending sexual texts at work, it will result in time time chastity with a chastity belt in which I have the key.
H. I like a mixture between romance and kinky and fun on my dates.
Just. I do like surprises.