Do most subs prefer online or in person Dom's? I'm the kinda Dom that likes the sound of a hand spanking a sub while she lays across the Dom's lap. In one scenario, I enjoyed her strapped to the bed, blindfolded and seeing from across the room her phone light up with a text probably from her ball and chain at home. It seems online, subs want it rough and to be pushed to all kinds of limits. However, in person, she runs at the though of being fully taken by the Dom because that means to her she fully belongs to him. Online subs seem to be topping from the bottom. They don't have to commit and there's really no way I see of keeping her inline. An online sub can abide by any rules they want. I admit I did enjoy the times the sub would send sexy pics of her in bed or zoom with you doing something sexual, but its still within the confines of a tv screen. Maybe this is the future of D/s? Also, if a sub has several online male friends from around the globe who she "talks" with knowing from what she has said in the past that the subject goes into the sexual realm, how as a Dom would you handle such a situation? Is this just part of the life of an online sub? I am asking as I am just wanting to understand the mindset of an online sub.
I am also curious about what would you do if a sub said aloud in person, "at this point I would let you do anything you want." Would you throw the list of agreed rules out the window to shut her up and show her how much an aggressive, alpha male you can be OR do you just chuckle at her words knowing if you acted she would run home as soon as play was finished? Yes, as a respectful Dom, I abide but the rules, but I sense from the sub almost a wish to toss the rules out.