Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

ursa​(sub female) - I agree. Sometimes, especially when I try a lot of new things at the same time, I can get overwhelmed. It's not necessarily a bad kind of overwhelming ,but I think maybe something about the experience wasn't what I was truly comfortable with, or it was just too much all at once. However, I trust that he and I can talk about it afterward and that the environment is always safe. So, I now feel much more comfortable meeting my soft limits than I believe I did before.

Jack of all doms​(dom male) - I think it's really comes down to two things, trust and sensitivity too your partners needs and desires.

Do you trust your partner enough to let them push you to your limits? Can they tell when they are going too far-- even Egremont you can't or aren't sure?

That's a tall order and asks a lot of ones partner.

Voldemort​(dom male) - And the idea is you can put a stop to it once it exceeds your limits.

AdamDragon​(dom male) - One step at a time. Trying something new should not be to the fullest s extent. A little of this and a little of that to test the waters, so to speak. That’s part of the exploration. Enjoy!

NoClvrNickname​(sub female) - Of course it’s acceptable. If you go to a new restaurant, there’s nothing wrong with saying yeah the main dish is fantastic but the side is kinda meh. IMO kink, like most things in life, doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing.

Maxorde{Not lookin} - Absolutely. You may find that your hard limits may change as well. Soft limits, the way I feel, are ones that may or may not be acceptable. Wonderful blog. Thank you for sharing and asking questions!