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Let's Get You Started: Rules & Tips

By CAGE Staff​(staff)     July 22, 2023

Below you'll find the rules for THE CAGE BDSM Community as well as some tips for interacting in an appropriate way within our community.


All members of THE CAGE must adhere to the following:

  • you must be 18+ years of age
  • conduct yourself in a lawful and responsible manner
  • you must respect other's privacy. Do not share other's images or personal information without consent
  • be civil. Misogyny, racism, hate speech, harassment and abuse will not be tolerated. Unless you've negotiated it, name calling and humiliation is not acceptable
  • do not demand others to treat you as a (dominant/submissive/etc.) before all parties negotiate and agree to it
  • do not send unsolicited nude or sexually explicit photos to other users without their consent
  • do not advertise or request paid sexual or BDSM services or publish information about said services
  • don't ask others for money or gifts and don't promote your business
  • do not publish external contact details in profiles, blogs, forums, and other public areas of THE CAGE (phone number, email address, messenger ID, etc.)
  • do not mass message or "spam" other users, which we consider to be disruptive in some cases, and straight on harassment in others
  • do not create multiple accounts

Visit the relevant Help sections for rules for posting on blogs and The Discussion Forum.

If you suspect that someone has violated our rules or if you're experiencing harassment or abuse, please take a screenshot of the conversation and confidentially report it. You can do this by visiting the member's profile and clicking on the "report" button. Our staff will review the report promptly and take appropriate action.

Tips for Polite Conduct

Here are some important guidelines to follow while interacting within THE CAGE BDSM Community:

Non-Discrimination: Treat everyone in the community with equal respect, regardless of their gender, sexual orientation, race, or any other personal attributes.

Respect and Consent: Refrain from name-calling and humiliation unless explicitly negotiated. Not everyone enjoys or desires this, so never assume. Engage in respectful communication.

Privacy and Discretion: Protect the privacy of community members by refraining from sharing personal information without their explicit consent. Respect their need for discretion.

Constructive Debates: Encourage heated conversations and debates, but focus on discussing opinions rather than attacking individuals personally. Challenge ideas without resorting to personal insults.

Explicit Content: You can display your nude and kinky photos in your profile and blog, but sending unsolicited explicit content is strictly prohibited. Respect others' preferences and ensure consent.

Dominant/Submissive Dynamics: Domination/submission requires negotiation and mutual agreement. Being a dominant doesn't entitle you to specific treatment without respectful communication and consent.

Financial Requests and Promotion: Do not ask others for money or gifts, and refrain from using the platform for personal business or external promotion. These actions violate our rules and can make others uncomfortable.

By adhering to these guidelines, we can maintain a respectful and inclusive environment within THE CAGE BDSM Community. Let's create a space where everyone feels comfortable exploring their desires and connecting with like-minded individuals.