Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

42 y/o      United States

I am a 35 year old male Dom, don’t consider myself a Master as I’m sure there is still plenty for me to learn, been interested in BDSM since I discovered what has become kink.com when I was a teenager. Initially it was just porn that really turned me on and I started reading more in to it and found getdare and started playing with people/subs online. I’ve had some sub relationships that have failed miserably due to things I’ve done wrong and some that have gone quite well. I’d like to think of the failures as lessons learned. My most recent sub relationship ended about a year ago after having her for a year due to my job relocating and my responsibilities going through the roof and just not having time for her. We still talk now and then but she has moved on and has a Dom in real life now. I work in the construction industry so I typically start early and work late but most days I am able to chat relatively frequently. There will be some days where I am with clients or just busy and I won’t be available but I usually know when that will happen and I will let my sub know ahead of time and plan other activities to keep them occupied.
Outside of kink I am a normal guy who loves the outdoors, camping hiking, running, hunting, fishing, dirt bikes, cars, off roading, basically anything with an engine and outside. I live out in the woods and when I’m not doing work for my job I’m usually working on my house, dirt bike, one of my cars, or I’m out wandering around in the woods around my house.

Kinks – I’ve listed some off below but I'm sure I've forgotten some here and there and you never know what might catch my eye. You don't have to share every single one of my likes and dislikes but we should have some in common.

Likes:
-Control (Orgasm, clothing, Schedule)
-Rules / Tasks
-Edging / ruined orgasms
-Hidden public
-Bondage
-Nipple play/pain
-Anal insertions and stretching
-humiliation
-spanking
-vaginal insertions and stretching

Interested in:
-nipple stretching/ thickening
-natural lactation without pregnancy
-blackmail
-Predicament bondage

Dislikes:
-Diapers
-Gross things

Limits:
-Blood
-Permanent
- Basic safety things
-Common sense things
-multiple subs or Doms
-illegal

I am on EST time zone and would appreciate someone in a similar time zone. If you have any questions feel free to message me. I look forward to hearing from potential subs.

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74 y/o      Hilo, Hawaii

I'm looking for a submissive female (or one who considers themselves a slave female) for a long term relationship. I value honesty, loyalty, obedience. Dislike drama. Believe in open, honest communication. Prefer you to be HWP, between 25 and 60, non-smoker like me, and be drug and disease free. My limits are nothing illegal, nothing that breaks the skin or leaves long term marks, scat. I will play games with your body, but not your mind.

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35 y/o      Florida

Seeking a live in Long term Sub(s), Master/Slave(s) with collaring. We can start online if it makes you feel more comfortable. Must like dogs, be able to cook, clean, properly follow rules and truly enjoy being a sub. (Willing to train new/inexperienced subs in the basics. If you are looking for a hardcore Kinky sex release and run look elsewhere.) Long term to permanent is preferred. Would prefer multiple subs with a first wife/sub/slave hierarchy depending on the sub(s)/slave(s) wishes.
If interested send a message along with a recent picture and level of experience and what you would like in this relationship.

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  California

Mid 20s 6’1” male seeking sub, I travel throughout the states so location isn’t a huge deal.
AFTERCARE IS IMPORTANT
Although it’s very important my time isn’t wasted.

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32 y/o      Brighton, England

I'm looking to a slave to train and teach the art of submitting fully to a someone. I'm from Sussex and am very experienced in dominating (5 years slave training). If your from the area and looking to become Owned then message

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25 y/o      Murray, Kentucky

I'm an 18 year old Male looking for a submissive woman for an online dom sub relationship that can possibly become a relationship irl as well. We'll start with chatting and work out way into Skype. Age should be around 18-25.

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28 y/o      New York, New York

Greetings seekers,

I've noticed that there are a lot of lifestylers seeking within NYC as well. Thought I'd open up a little bit and try my luck. I am a twenty two year old TPE Dominant simply putting myself out there to see if there will be any bite. I am not one to rush or waste time. I am looking for a TPE submissive that can live up to high standards as a long term toy both online and in real life. I am strictly seeking someone within the five boroughs as I do prefer more physical relations than distance. However, anyone is allowed to message me.

Instead of sharing how my dynamic operates, I'll leave that for you to unveil over time.
I look forward to speaking with you.

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  Tacoma, Washington

I am about 6ft5 270. I take care of myself. I am professionally employed, own my own home car truck..blahbblah etc.
I am looking forna submissive friend that coyld lead to more. Not wanting sex right away...yeah a man said that. If you want to.be abused
..I. the wrong man. If you want to be led and guided...then I need you

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  Atlanta, Georgia

Seeking white female sub , age 28 to 46

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25 y/o      Florida

Im 19 with some experience online and im looking to have more, ive never had a slave or little in real life but if you live in the largo area of Florida id be up for just about anything. Im strict but also single so you would have all my time and attention. If your interested in an being my online little girl or slave msg me, if you want to talk about meeting say so :)

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48 y/o      Texas

Experienced Master of a MaleDom couple is seeking a slave that wants a forever home and an opportunity to be owned for life

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58 y/o      New Jersey

Please read my profile page... I have so much to offer. Hope to hear from yu soon, Hugs and love, Daddy Ron

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  Wisconsin

Master Dom 70 year old Looking for a Submissive women
I am looking for my Sub for 24/7 live in!

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54 y/o      Florida

I am looking for an honest woman sub. You must always be truthful, clean, and ready for anything. You must enjoy being a goddess being worshipped daily, as a lady should be. Until the door is closed and....
If you call any other "master ", I am not for you.
I will relocate if you show you are worthy.
But you have to start with a hello.

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  Hamilton, Ontario

Recently retired gentleman with 15 years Dom experience looking for a permanent sub with an interesting combination of light and dark (with more than 50 shades in between). I need a 100% obedient and respectful lady who knows God, but also is willing to let me use her body as my canvas, to pierce and tattoo her as I see fit. This process would take place gradually but no area of her body is off limits. If she belongs to me, she should be willing to show it.
I am also into pet play and will love to see you on all fours at the end of my leash.
I have a sufficient income to live comfortably.
I recognize that communication is essential but will train you to be pleasing in speech and behaviour.
I hope to enjoy you as my treasured special one-in-a-million sub!

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61 y/o      Germany

I looking for a young Little (have experience with young 21 yrs) for a real long term relationship Daddy-Little girl but slave to. I like boobs any size. Will train you also about my country the kind of live style, the municipality that you can later do any thing what is necessary for us.
Sexual can any time play time indoor and outdoor. Limits branding, scat, blood, permanent damage, ...

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50 y/o      Columbia, South Carolina

Hello ladies I am a dominant male looking for a submissive female I wanted to take care of my needs to do is told to be slapped when punished to be anally f***** when punished too basically be used for what she needs to be used for nothing more if you're interested in this is the type of lifestyle that you choose to leave then you know exactly what I'm talking about I'm not in just playing games I am for real I am not a sub I am a full true Dom looking for his girl

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  Hanahan, South Carolina

Seeking a live in eventually either in charleston sc or willing to relocate to me age race size unimportant also looking for a regular sub i can meet on regular basis

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  Hudson, Florida

I'm in the Tampa Bay area would like for you to be close situation is right you can share my home with me I spect total respect and submission from you and I'll leave it at that for now

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  Washington

Looking for a submissive for a life long commitment. Not want phone or cyborg submissive must be willing to join me 24/7

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  Canada

I am in my early thirties and am looking to indulge some voyeur tendencies.
I have had a few online and offline d/s relationships so am experienced. I respect my partner but am not above degrading them if she gets off on it.
I'm looking for a submissive female to chat and play with. One of my favourite things to do is explore a sub's secret desires. The more turned on my sub is, the more I enjoy it.
My interests vary from discipline to just being playful, depending on the chemistry I have with my sub.
I obviously would not expect anything too explicit, pics or anything of that nature until trust is build and we both agree that it is ok.
If any of this sounds like fun, or if you just like being looked at, msg me.

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49 y/o      Indianapolis, Indiana

Hey. I'm a newbie to this lifestyle. I tried it with a friend and I loved it. I'm a freaky dom looking for a female sub just as freaky as me.

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  Los Angeles, California

23 year old LA based dom seeking a sub/pet/slave/etc. Check out my profile for more.

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54 y/o      Liberty, Texas

I am looking for local women who will be up for some live action rape play. Message me if interested.

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  Ithaca, New York

I'm from ithaca ny I'm a dom male looking for that special slut slave she may be fat or skinny , I shall you the same,

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  California

Looking for female footslave to humiliate and serve me . Serious inquires only.

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33 y/o      Luton, England

Looking for a submissive
I don’t mind if you new to the scene or a pro ;) I’m happy to be dominant to either! I’m tall bearded and broad and kinky 24/7
Hope to hear back from you

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31 y/o      Puerto Rico

Hi im here to look for a woman that is as dedicated to being a Submissive to me as i will be as Dominant to her. i will take care of her and provide everything. Please anybody willing to find this serious commitment and relationship, even if its a long distance for now , write to me. Thank you all.

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60 y/o      Louisville, Kentucky

Dominant white male, very fit, ripped and educated seeks submissive black female in or around the Louisville, Kentucky area.

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  Thetford, Vermont

Im looking for a submissive women in the uppervally aria of Vermont looking for some one who is interested in complete submission in certain arias but not in all thought if you are interested in having your all controlled then im game willing to talk details and limits.

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  United States

Im 21 and I’m looking for a hot girl to be my submissive message me please

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32 y/o      New Delhi, Delhi

I am based out of New Delhi. I am looking for a sub female trained/untrained. Sadist is also something I’d like to explore .

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  London, England

I have one sub. I’m greedy so want another to please me. Eventually I’d plan to introduce the subs to provide me with everything I wish.

I’m very strict and prefer a good sub. However, disobedience will be severely punished. I have high standards.

Patience and kindness is a strength of mine so this could suit someone just exploring the DS scene.

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  Indiana

Hello. I am a young 20 year old dom from Indiana currently seeking a submissive around my age or older who would like to be my sub. I cannot promise you much accept the love support and dominance that every good submissive needs in their life. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you soon.

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33 y/o      Sumter, South Carolina

I'm looking for a young lady at least 18 years old to no older than 35 how enjoys some age play I want you to act like a high school slut. I am in to nudity so the whole time you are with you will naked I want you to be ready at any time to service me that is why I put servant in the title as for the slave part all you will have to do is be willing to cook for me and start my shower there will be punishment if you do not do it correctly but the punishment will only be as hard as your limits allow mainly what I'm looking for is a sex servant

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40 y/o      England

I'm looking for female that I can make my bitch, do whatever I ask of her and if she doesn't she will be punished. If interested message me.

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42 y/o      Edwardsville, Illinois

I am a 36 year old dom master who has 16 years experience. I am looking for a true slave. I am not a bs dom who thinks slavery is all about sex and nudes. It is about power, control, and submission. It would start online but I have no problem making it in person. I have no issue with flying anywhere to train.

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36 y/o      La Grande, Oregon

Looking for someone fun, outgoing, willing to try something st least once.

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34 y/o      Arizona

I am seeking a sub. I am a dom and this will be online only unless you are in the az area. If you are interested than message me I am 28 6’2 tall and am athletic

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29 y/o      Noida, Uttar Pradesh

Hello I am a passionate dom. I am against the pain but love the pleasure coming out of it, if you are submissive let's use are creativity and take this pleasure to the level of heaven. I live in Noida only.

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  Colorado Springs, Colorado

Seeking a baby girl to adore, cherish and make my princess in a long term relationship. Local to Colorado Springs / Denver area please...

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  Huddersfield, England

Am from the UK seeking a submissive woman who wants to be treated in the right way, learn and experience being owned in the best possible way, experince being owned and controlled to fulfill her and my desires, replies from the UK only as I cannot travel abroad but if you can come to the UK then I am up to meet

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  North Carolina

Searching for a sub to begin online and possibly advance to a physical relationship. I would prefer a woman in the 18-21 or 45+ age range but all ages are welcome to apply. I am willing to take on a sub that’s still learning as long as she understands there will be pain involved in her learning process as I mold her into the sub she should be. Message me explaining why you believe you’re worthy to serve me.

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  Raleigh, North Carolina

Fun submissive female in a Raleigh North Carolina and surrounding areas willing to try something once or twice

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42 y/o      Chicago, Illinois

I travel extensively lately, so an online/phone scenario may need to suffice at first... Bonus points if you desire discipline at night (I need to monitor foreign markets). Although this could begin online, I would prefer for us to treat it as in person and real, if that makes any sense. New or curious to explore new horizons is acceptable as long as you are passionate and driven. We would meet in a month or two if things progress to that plane. The erotic happens to be only one component of our journey, the rest up to mutual discretion.

If you would like to explore possibilities, reply with a brief description of yourself, that which you seek from this sort of thing and a brief impression of what brings you pleasure.

Please be thoughtful and provide clarity with your response; I will certainly follow suit.

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42 y/o      Merced, California

Hello,

I am 35, soon to be 36. I have been in the lifestyle going on seventeen years now. I am looking for a masochist that shares in the same ideals I hold near and dear. Want to know what those are? Well, youll have to get to know me in order to find that out.

I will let you know now, Im not skinny by any stretch of the imagination. im not like morbidly obese, or anything. But i have a few extra pounds. If this is a turn off dont even bother replying.

I look forward to any replies.

Knight

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70 y/o      Mobile, Alabama

A sub who knows the differene between making love to daddy's cock and making love to daddy. A sub who wants to use her sexuality to create a mental and phyical bond of emotions and trust with daddy.

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  Colorado Springs, Colorado

Where is my hardcore sub female at you know you want this to be controlled used hard and bow before me so I am near woodlandpark but I do travel to colorado springs alot how submissive are you and what are your limits

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53 y/o      Marietta, Georgia

Full time, attractive female submissive sought. Contact me for further details and discussion. Serious inquiries only.

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56 y/o      London, England

I’m a very well hung mature black Dom with extensive experience in giving both pain and pleasure. I’m seriously looking for a female slave/sub to join me in developing a real life BDSM relationship in the UK. I have an interest in polyamory, so it would be a bonus if you did too (but it’s not a deal breaker). I also have an interest in either sisters or a mother and daughter(s) within a BDSM/poly dynamic. So if you are seriously interested in an M/s or D/s relationship with me, then let’s start to develop a worthwhile bond and dynamic together.

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74 y/o      Manchester, England

I am looking for a submissive female any legal age for regular meets
I like to experiment and would like my new sub to experiment with me
All boundaries and limits will be respected

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y/o      Los Angeles, California

I am a dominant white male, seeking a submissive female for anr and bdsm play. If interested lets chat and see if we may be a good fit.

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  Ottawa, Ontario

ecently (july 1) move in the orleans ont area from a small town i haven't met anyone yet or made any friends too busy. fathers of two kids that keeps my days full am looking to fill the lonely nights. (dominant.easy-going/shy)go with the flow
I like my partners to follow my lead) in the bedroom.I love sex, but love giving pleasure in the bedroom, I tend to try new positions I'm (always) willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds. (one of my turn-ons)
what I love [ill be blunt sorry lol ]
I love too eat pussy (UNTIL YOU CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE I would LOVE TO PLESES you pampered you full body massage ect (oil) My Ideal Person My Ideal Person she most be sweet caring submissive Adventurous kind hearted good sense of humor 420 friendly affectionate most love to get tied up & blindfolded &most love to be pampered ( full body massage ect ) she most suck & swallow..or spit
you most love to cuddle. age range between 18-33
most be clean shave & love to get eaten out
most be willing to tease me throughout the day texting /pics lingerie ect until we meet again
hopefully on a daylily basic most love wearing lingerie & your pictures taken looking to train and own a sub

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48 y/o      North Carolina

I am looking for a sub or preferably a slave near me. I prefer those with no experience as I like to train, but will take those who are experienced as well. If you are not near me and wish to begin online, that is fine also as long as it is understood that we will be meeting in real life as well. I do not like brats at all, so if you are mostly brat, do not even respond. I will take daddy's girls though.

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68 y/o      Sydney, New South Wales

Mature, experienced, spiritual, ritualistic, seeking a female submissive for a long term loving relationship

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  Mississippi

I am 21 years old training to be a truck driver. I will be on the road for 2-3 weeks at a time. I am looking for a submissive willing to travel with me. Your room and board will be covered by me. If you at any point decide that the relationship is not for you then i will make arrangements for you to return home whether it be by bus or if i drop you off at your home town. Any further detail can be ironed out by messaging me.

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57 y/o      New York, New York

I am a Strict Sadistic Dominant and Daddy Dom, sending me a note telling me your greatest desire is to submit to a strong-willed intelligent man pleases me.

Important things to know about me:
* I am a disciplinarian and very strict.
* I have no patience for I'll-mannered people.

My main goal for being on this site has been to get to know people in the lifestyle, as well as make friends who have similar interests. My secondary goal is to find one submissive who is not to far to serve me. I do* not.* do " online only " domination. If you are looking for Internet only, phone only, text only, or any combination thereof, you can move on. I am not the one for you.
If you are seeking to serve me, you may send me a message. This is your first task and the first chance you have to impress me, and show me you can follow instruction and that you pay attention to details.


Ass Play
Begging
Blindfolds
Body Worship
Bondage
Breast Play
Canes and Crops
Collars
Gags
Hair Pulling
Humiliation
Massage (Getting)
Obedience Training
Orgasm Control
Sensory Deprivation
Spanking
Speech Restrictions
Vibrators
Wax play
Whips
Intellectual Conversation

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53 y/o      Shelbyville, Kentucky

I am a black Master in Simpsonville Kentucky looking for a white submissive woman. I have been a Master for 2years.

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  Mobile, Alabama

I am a middle class Africa American male in the Harrisburg Mississippi area and would like to know where are all of the submissive women are. I am told there are dominate male/submissive women regional meetings every now and than and one is upcoming in Hattiesburg Mississippi soon Does anyone have a definite date? I am aware of the hotel it will be hosted at but do not have a solid date in July.

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48 y/o      Mississippi

I’ve been on this site and in BDSM for a while. I really enjoy talking about the kink lifestyle. I’m open to online for as long as it takes to build trust. Looking for submissive in the bedroom but give and take in public. I like sassy dirty talk and a willingness to do what I say when I say it in bed. Open to toys, degradation, petting, rope play, orgasm control. I will push but respect boundaries. Talk soon my lovely.

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