Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

34 y/o      Spirit Lake, Idaho

Im looking for a female slave in Seattle.

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  Chicago, Illinois

19 year old male looking to take my mind off stuff and have a fun time.

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45 y/o      Oakland, California

Hi Pandette (and would-be Pandettes),

I'm looking for a genuine love, comfortably proximal to the guide-posts of DD/lg or D/s. I am based in the SF Bay Area, so be close by or ready to relocate.

I am a sweet, intelligent, gooft, driven, sexy Daddy, and I am only looking for an equal with the same qualities. I require complete submission, but promise to cherish it always.

REQUIREMENTS
1. Heart of gold
2. Intelligent conversation
3. Sexually dynamic Submissive
4. Trustworthy, steadfast and loyal
5. Excellent hugs and snuggles

EXTRA CREDIT
1. Rough Play
2. Highly orgasmic
3. Passionately Oral
4. Enjoys the beach, live music and 4:20

Xoxoxo,
--Panda

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70 y/o      Surfside Beach, South Carolina

My imagination runs crazy with visions of your beautiful, smooth skin, glistening with sweat as we make love in the hot, humid glow country summer. Your nipples, growing harder as the clips we put on push blood to the exciting brown circles. You've been tied to the four posts on the bed, having been brought to the edge with my tongue, toys, and.....As you've raised your gentle moan from when we first started to huge gasps of air as getting off is the only thing you want now.
Is that a pretty good ad? I really do have a good imagination. I'm not into hardcore BDSM, but will stretch and bend to wherever my partner wants to go.

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33 y/o      New York, New York

28 y.o. Dom in upstate New York looking for submissive female around the same age and area for in person play time hoping to lead to a committed relationship and D/s dynamic

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26 y/o      Barcelona, Catalonia

Hey! You should totally check out my profile to know about me.
Anyways I'm a young sadist looking for a partner (Hopefully from spain, but I know that'd be too good to be true). Overall I have a preety solid understanding of what I want, and I'm attempting to build a relationship that can fit into that.

Long distances are not a problem, and I really hope this works.

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25 y/o      Ottawa, Illinois

Looking for someone. New to the site. I'm 20 years old. From the North Carolina, US area hmu

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  New York

This is my first time on a forum like this, but I was intrigued to make a post.
I’m not looking for anything specific and certainly no BDSM, just a cute female , preferably in the age range of 20-40, to be my submissive counterpart. You can be my pet, do what I say, and I’ll be happy. It’s pretty simple. Contact me for more details. Please have a photo as well, and be in the New York City area.

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25 y/o      Minnesota

Let me get this clear right now. Currently, I am not looking for something permanent or sexual. I am in a loving relationship currently that will hopefully last a long time.
A friend came to me a while ago asking for advice about the lifestyle. My parents were very open with me as I grew up about their lifestyle and why it wasn't wrong. My friend was a new submissive who had no idea where to start. I trained her in the basics, taught her the do's and dont's, got her comfortable with who she was, and then kept her accountable until she found her first true Dom only a few weeks ago. Her dom told me of this site and said there were several subs on here that need that help.
I am here to help. If you have questions, want someone to train you in the basics and hold you accountable, or just wanna chat, contact me.

Note: I am fairly new to the whole online dom thing, but I should learn it fairly quickly. Also, I will not agree to train someone until we have developed some level of trust..

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  Los Angeles, California

Go read my profile and contact me if you feel you may be right for me.

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  Rancho Cordova, California

I an white single 66 live all alone here in sacramento Ca. seeking a submissive female sexy toy to enjoy and give me some good times.

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28 y/o      Alabama

New to the BDSM scene and wanting to grow with someone. I cam be dom with females/shaven boys or I can be sub with a female. I enjoy any assplay and would love to experience that with others. I do have a girl I am talking to but she has no clue about this side of me. Also willing to do meetups in AL, GA and maybe TN. Honestly just want someone who is willing/wanting to do some assplay. If you have ANY questions just send me a message, I'm pretty open

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  Portland, Oregon

I'm searching for submissive woman that will be willing to relocate to Europe with me. I'm 42 years old and I'm ready to settle. It doesn't matter where you live now, we can get to know each other on line to see if we are a good match.

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38 y/o      United States

Looking to connect with a sub female who is looking for dom male.. id like to chat see what your looking for exactly .. must have pics and attractive .. hygene is important .. honsesty amd loyalty.. check me out lets chat. Ages 25 to 37

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  Liverpool, England

Older experienced Dom looking for sub / slave . Initially looking to chat and see if there is a connection . Experience is not a necessity nor a requirement . A positive ooen mindset is . Message me here to chat .

D.

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  United States

Hi!
I'm just getting back into being a Dom after taking a break. I'm looking for an online partner. I can be stern and caring. I'm not looking to be completely controlling in all aspects of my subs life. Read my profile and if you're interested send me a message. I look forward to getting to know you more!

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31 y/o      Karachi, Sindh

Hello. I am 25 years old, , 5’7, have an athletic build. I have a few years of experience as a Dom . Both in person and long distance all the way with someone who was from Alaska. I run my own business.I prefer to stay online for sometime for match ourselves.

I am a very active, healthy person and want someone who enjoys being active and taking care of themselves.I sometimes, cook, read, video games(sometimes), watch tv and movies. I love sports and being competitive. I am looking for someone who not only ends up being a sub or slave but also my good friend and genuinely loves spending time together.

What I'm looking into my partner is she should be trustworthy, lively, talkative, obedient.I respect others privacy so if you want some time on taking the relationship slow i would not mind that all & even can train her.
Apart from that I'll be making weekly NON-SEXUAL task for my partner for her grooming and better skills.it will not only a sexual relation-ship. I would like to talk about her day and mine, sharing thoughts and exchanging ideas.

If you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read all of this! I hope to hear from you soon.

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  Arizona

I am a gentleman in the streets dominant in the sheets. I look for a relationship with a true sub girl who enjoys being dominated and controled. You should be ready to be used and ordered around. It is ok if you want to move with me as long as you are willing to be a servant. Contact me.

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  Minnesota

I have had 2 sub partners in the past I have learned from and would like to find a new sub. There is a possibility of a long term relationship, but the needs to be a very solid connection.

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  London, England

Hello, I’m an experienced Dom looking for a a new sub or piggy after my recent move to London. I’m genuine and serious about this and looking to build something either in real life or online. Experienced or inexperienced women any age are welcome to respond. Any details can be discussed in persons which probably works better then leaving an extremely long post here.

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  New Brunswick, New Jersey

I’m looking for a woman whose company I will enjoy in and out of the bedroom. I’m quite fond of music, psychonautics, and good conversation. I’m not necessarily after anything committal. We’ll cross that bridge when we come to it. I just want to explore the high that I get from absolute control.

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47 y/o      Lancaster, Ohio

I AM 6FT 4IN ~ ohio DOM ~ vary DDF ~ looking for a new friend and a privet playmate~ I am open minded ~ I love rope play ~ and cuffs ~ I am into long slow foreplay ~i am not a cruel master i am not looking to harm you! I just want to tie you up play with you and give and receive plaser~ I am willing to train a newby~ or I can take someone with training~ I do not care about your looks or how heavy or flat you may be or not be~ your rase is nothing to me ! I am looking for a girl only! to be my new playmate ~ I do not judge you on your past I am looking for a girl that will obey my in all things both in and out of the bedroom~ if you are looking for a new master we need to talk~ this is something that must be a good fit for us both!

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60 y/o      Texas

Do you need to be taken in hand, given guidance, directed in the art of pleasing your master? Do you need to be taken over my knee and paddled red so that I can admire my work while you spend time in the corner contemplating your actions? I will train you when you need to trained. Discipline you when you need to be disciplined, and hold you when you need to be held. You will stay on your knees waiting for your opportunity to serve me. I enjoy online discipline as well so you filthy little sluts that need to be given direction from a distance don’t hesitate to request direction, discipline, and care. I’ll take the time to create a personalized plan just for you.

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  New York, New York

Dominant white male in NYC here who's searching for a female for rough useage, humiliation and degradation. Kinks include face and body slapping, choking, spit, piss, being rimmed, face fucking, anal, verbal abuse, body writing and more.

Hoping to find someone in or near the NYC area.

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  Miami, Florida

only the serious need to apply, if you don't know your place then be prepared to be put in it

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  New Jersey

Looking for realtime sub slut near philly/south jersey. Judgement free. Must be ok with me being married

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46 y/o      Leeds, England

I am a Dominant male, 41 years old looking for real-life submissive in the UK. I believe a Dom/sub relationship is one based on honest, sincere and communicate without boundaries to discover and find a mutual ground.
I have always considered myself to be compassionate and respectful with my submissive. I take my time to care for and listen to my submissive, I always make sure I explain everything step by step so that there are no surprises, yet I am also strict when I must be.

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33 y/o      Missouri

A little about myself last year I had a car accident 2017 September 21st I can still do everything for myself just paralyzed from the waist down so I hope it doesn't ruin any chance I have with you sweetheart but my thing does not even work I have a catheter in, so I'm not looking for sex and I don't want anyting sexually done to me at all and I mean that this it's completely all about me focusing on you I just want you to lay there and let me kiss all over your body I haven't even touched a woman in almost 2 years it's literally eating me alive a lot on the inside making me severely depressed and thinking about suicide because I'm tired of being alone I would give anything in the world to find a woman and I would do whatever I could to make sure they had everything they ever wanted spoil them and literally cherish them and all's I would want in return it's just to give me a chance to be able to make them the happiest woman alive and I know I can do that because I would devote my life to that one person and always have they're back and be there for them and be that one person that they can always count on the only women I met online that even wanting to maybe come hang out and see me and give me that companionship someone that I can hold onto wants me to pay a hundred or $200 just to be able to do that it's like no one has a heart anymore or cares about people I am literally one in million guy you will never find a guy as good-hearted as I am that would do anything for anybody no matter who you are even if I never met you before I would give you all the money I have on me just to make sure you're taken care of my whole life I have had nothing done to me but be used lie to cheated on taken advantage of because of my humongous Heart of Gold I can't take not having that someone to talk to every night every morning or every day at least I need somebody otherwise I cannot make it any more I have no one but my son and my mom and I barely get to see either one of them maybe twice a month if I'm lucky I'm hurting way too bad because I have nobody I would literally kill to find my submissive woman that would always be there for me I would always do anything for me just like I would them if that's you if you maybe interested message me back please

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27 y/o      Anand, Gujarat

Hello i am male dom seeking for female sub in person as well as for online chats. Whosoever is interested can contact me.

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58 y/o      Sudbury, England

Middle ages male seeking compliant submissive female to enjoy moments of complete depravity. The right person will get my undivided attention completely. Would be wonderful if it leads to a LTR but initially I am happy with online or whatever. I am interested in younger women as much as those of my own age and will answer all messages. If you message me I would expect the same. Good manners cost nothing and nothing worse than leaving someone dangling. Please check my profile for more information and feel free to contact me.

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  Wagoner, Oklahoma

53 yr old Daddy near Tulsa Oklahoma looking for baby girl. Prefer ages of 35-45, no kids, career oriented. Enjoying anal sex and ass play are a must, masochist is a bonus but not required. Prefer petite small breasted women but again, that's just a preference.

I'm searching for that girl to spend the rest of my kinky life with going to play parties and being immersed in the lifestyle. I live in a small town, in a house, alone with my 2 dogs. I am a calm, patient and educated man who needs a great partner committed to D/s.

Don't let my preferences keep you from responding, every baby girl is special and I love all women. Hit me up and let's see if we click.

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  Kansas City, Kansas

Ik what I want and I’m willing to teach you

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  New York

Looking for local female beuties

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  United Kingdom

Hi, im looking for a Sub who is willing to chat and see where things go. im happy to talk any time so feel free to message me even if it's just for a friendly chat. I have been in the lifestyle most of my life and there is little I won't try or do for the right woman. if your wondering anything feel free to ask anytime.

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33 y/o      Beebe, Arkansas

I am a very patient Dom, looking for a sub to share my life with

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50 y/o      Slidell, Louisiana

In San Diego and just starting to realize my dom side. Definitely a primal dom, looking for someone to play with. 6'0, average build, white, beard. Overall pretty nice funny guy that wants to explore is animal nature.

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  Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

Hello there. I am a new member to the Cage, and am an older Dom with over 15 years experience meeting younger (18-22) girls offline that want to be taught new and dirty things with IN-experienced girls. I will talk with you in detail and learn your experiences, desires, limits and fantasies, and will arrange them for you in real-life meets once you feel comfortable with me, and you show me you are legit and serious.
I am clean, safe and experienced in all types of BDSM from beginner-level to experienced. I can arrange MFM as well as FMF 3-sums with girls that want to eventually try those things once you and I have met IRL first.
I am easy to talk to and will be a true friend, not like most just trying to get in your pants.
I am open to hook-ups, but prefer on-going meets so we can progress each session and increase intensity and pleasure at your pace.
I travel with my job throughout the US, and have successful relationships with girls as far away as Cali and Washington State for over 3 continuous years. Every single girl I've met offline the past has met me repeatedly again and again. So not only must I be safe and trustworthy, I must be fun as well :)
Message me with any questions or interests, and we can go from there. Just please be REAL, serious, and clean.
Thank you, Jeremy

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35 y/o      Arizona

I am a 28 year old male living in Arizona looking for an online only relationship. I have some experience being a Dom, but would like someone that is willing to push boundaries.

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34 y/o      Flagstaff, Arizona

Looking for something online and to then go to a more personal relationship. Currently moving to Washington so looking for my pet to either move with me, or for her to meet me there. So let me make this clear, it will be 1 on 1 training, no one else will be involved. I am looking for her to depend on me for everything that she will do in her life if this goes serious. Which, I am hoping it will. I am looking forward to meeting my pet on here and help her lead a life that she wants. -Stray.

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  United States

I'm just curious to see who this pulls in.

I'm an experienced sadistic black male in his 20s. About 6'2'', give or take an inch. With almost a decade under my belt regarding BDSM and other such activities, I'm very confident in my own abilities ranging from vanilla experiences to the more hardcore proclivities. When I need to be, I've been told that I can be quite the soft and lovable teddy bear, but that flip can be switched so that I'm able to make the skin tremble and the blood run cold when deemed necessary. With that being said, I'm (almost exceedingly) respectful towards limits, patient towards personal boundaries to a saintly degree, and mostly interested in finding the core of an individual before anything else as I value that more above all. If any of that piques your interest then feel free to contact me whenever you please. If not, then I hope you find what you're looking for.

As a note, if after reading this you plan on clicking my profile for further information you may find mostly the same being said aside from my one limit. Any questions you may have I would be more than happy to answer to the best of my ability.

"Without judgement or condemnation, my ultimate goal is to help people find their truest self. "

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  Portland, Maine

Hello, my name is Jack, I'm a Younger dom aged 24 and 6'2. I'm relatively fit and strong. I am looking for a sexual and meaningful relationship. I have taken the BDSM test which you can message me fore the results of. I am quite a Kinky guy but have limits like poop. If you would like to know more about me feel free to message.

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35 y/o      Montreal, Quebec

I'm new to being a Dom and I know I need to learn, that why I would like a slave with not to much experience so we can learn togheter. I want to be your new daddy and learn how to tame you. Best would be beginning online and if not to far have meet up.

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28 y/o      Tyler, Texas

Im growing tired of these posts. They never work! Anyways Im looking for my girl. Someone I can call a good girl when she's good and a bad girl when she's bad. Someone who respects me and who I can respect. Someone I can grow with. Im only 22yo so I've still got some growing to do. I've looked and looked and honestly I'm beginning to doubt if she's out there. I long to hear the words "Yes Master" I want to make her quiver and jump at the touch of my hands. I want to satisfy her deepest desires and mine as well. This means more to me than most things. Share my bed, my life, my love. Let me take care of you. Let me bring you to the deepest parts of you. In short I need a sub. But we both know its more than that. PM me if your interested.

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26 y/o      Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania

I am a young African-american in north eastern PA, looking to begin a short term relationship.
Nothing is off the table for now. Inbox me for more details

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42 y/o      Thomasboro, Illinois

I posted on here some time ago but I think I went about it all wrong.

I am indeed new to the whole D/s dynamic. I don't have a lot of personal experience aside from some spanking and dirty talk with some teasing.

What I am looking for is either someone who is close to me and can eventually be in person as well as over the phone or long distance and text or call whenever. Someone who can understand that I'm new and looking to explore it more and build some deep bonds. I understand that trust and respect most be earned on both sides and I feel this is a good starting point.

I am monogamous heterosexual. I have yet to discover what kind of Dom I am yet but leasing towards Master with my controlling bondage kink, or Daddy with my caring and nurturing self.

I'm willing to explore to find out what is the best and what my real limits are. I know I don't like needle/knife play, blood or excrements, or any forms of mutilation and permanent markings. Being that, I won't know until I try.

You, as a sub, would be willing to be patient at first but know that I am generally a quick learner. You would know what you need to do and not be afraid to guide me along to find that out myself until I learn what it is all on my own. Everything is a lessening experience and can only get better than the time before.

I don't expect to be 100% in scene status because I do enjoy casual normal conversations too, but I'm ok with interjecting it into everyday activities, gradually moving into more personal territories.

A little bit about me: I'm recently single from a long term relationship and marriage. I think I'm kind and compassionate but firm when I need to be. I've never had an easy time meeting new people or making friends.

Sometimes I may get some joy out of being sadistic but never maliciously. I love being in control, having the power. There's never really been a lot in my life that I've had real control over, so when I do get the control, it's intoxicating. This life style was something I'd always had discussions about exploring but never went anywhere until recently. I just recently finished reading The New Topping Book and started to read The New Bottoming Book just so I can get an idea of what you would be going through and expecting as well. Knowing both sides of the coin so to speak.

I don't consider myself to be great looking but I think I'm handsome enough. I'm 6'2" tall but I'm also pretty large. We can do a pic for pic exchange if you are interested. Any further details can be discussed personally. I have Kik, Discord and just downloaded Telegram so there are options. I'm sure I could even dredge up my Skype if needed.

If this sounds like something you are interested in, and are serious about this and me being someone you could want to try this with, please message and we can go from there and see where it takes us. I really want to see where this can take us.

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  Pennsylvania

Very nicely built and well put together Dominant Daddy and bodybuilder, 43, SWM, 6' tall, 185 lbs, 6 pak abs, clean shaved, I am very loving and affectionate kind of Daddy Dominant, living in Hershey, PA who wants a sexy YOUNG ASIAN submissive in the 18-30 age range to marry and possibly start a family with. I am very old-fashioned and traditional when it comes to love and NEED a sexy Asian sub to love and adore

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40 y/o      New Hampshire

Hello i am seeking a sub/slave to control completely. Must have little to no limits and within breeding range i am looking for this to be permanent. Only serious inquiries. If chosen i will require a nonnude face pic with my name and the date to confirm you are who you say you are.

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75 y/o      Ocoee, Florida

Seeking Submissive Female with little or no experience . I'm a caring but firm Dom. Before anything we will have to need to get to know each other. Communication will be the foundation and essence of our relationship. Online is ok to get started. Training will require relocating. I don't do online role playing. I require that your response to this post must be coherent sentences explaining why you want to be my sub.

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  Kemerovo Oblast

I am an 18 year old guy from Russia. Calm and caring but I can be strict when needed. I am looking for a sub girl around my age. I like to control your masturbation, including when, where and how you do it and some other things ^_^ I want to build a trustful relationship so no rushing. Feel free to message me if you're a beginner and if you have some questions

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26 y/o      Salt Lake City, Utah

Looking for a long term loyal sub

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27 y/o      Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

I'm a new and inexperienced Dom looking for a sub/slave who wants to submit to a new master.

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  Bradford-on-Avon, England

Dominant man seeking submissive lady, In Wiltshire or Somerset would be ideal.

I am genuine and reliable, always safety conscious, respectful of limits, imaginative and witty. I would value my submissive, look after her and consider her my equal (although there are several, role play, scenarios in which we would not be equals. I know the difference between fantasy and reality). I am very patient, when necessary, and would always take my time getting to understand my sub.

The perfect sub should respect and look after her self and someone who would help me to understand who she is and what she wants.

I am a sadistic, top dom and also into age play (age gap, not baby doll). However this is not an absolute. Any age from 20 (yes really, I’d be willing) up to my age. Body type and level of experience are not necessarily deal breakers. I am completely straight. I might consider a distance or virtual relationship or arrangement.

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  United States

I'm new to this website but familiar with D/s role plays. I would like someone who is willing to have an online relationship, including rp and others. I'm 18 and a senior in high school, willing to have a relationship with any age. Message me!

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  Missouri

I'm From Kansas City looking for my submissive,,,is that u

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51 y/o      Atlanta, Georgia

I live and work in Atlanta and I hope you do too, but I own my own modest home so I can host for a few days and nights if you live elsewhere. I love to discipline a very bad girl and train her to be well-behaved, I love even more to discipline a well-behaved girl to make her weep in surrender; to punish, humiliate, and torture her until her affectionate devotion to me is confirmed; and to nurture and reinforce these submissions until she blossoms to her full potential. Power exchange is the greatest and most intimate gift we can give to one another, fulfilling the desires of your heart, your mind, and your lust. You will never feel more beautiful, stand taller, or walk more proudly than you will once you have cowered beneath me with my marks upon your body... and then found the helpless courage to beg for more.

Sweet girl of mine, you whore, servant, and slave to my command! Give me your weakness and I will give you your strength. Message me when you are ready to begin ;)

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32 y/o      Liphook, England

I am new to the BDSM world. I just recently realized my true calling as a Dom and would like to explore more with a consenting sub. What I lack in experience I make up for in unlimited imagination and willingness to try new things. My limits generally depend on my sub but sharing/infidelity is a big no. At the moment I cannot host. Feel free to message me for more information.

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  India

Hey I'm a new dom looking for a sub. I'm open to all sorts of things but would like to slowly transition to collaring , training, and then slave.

Shoot me a message and we can start chatting. I'm pretty shallow and the sexual part if very important to me so I am looking for 18-35, fit, very attractive. It's just the way I am.

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50 y/o      Purcellville, Virginia

Dom/sub couple seeks female sub/slave to join or family. Ultimately seeking a live in situation but until then. Someone to have fun with would be fine. Must be bi

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  Virginia Beach, Virginia

Looking for a true sub who is serious about this lifestyle and wants to grow with me. I am open to all ages, experiences and kinks but just be aware I am very experienced so I am looking for someone who can handle that. I would like someone who understands the dynamic of a BDSM relationship and its separation from our overall bond(many people can't comprehend this). I am demanding at times and will expect a lot of you because to be with me I think very highly of you as a person. I don't play games so if you aren't sure about what you want, move on. Read my about me on my profile for more and contact me for any questions.

I am highly interested in finding a dedicated slave or just a sub who is eager to please but my type includes middles or nymphettes, littles, or dedicated slaves.

Located on the East coast(VA), relocation possible for the right person.

**Don't be shy to reach out to me because It is important that my Sub comes to me.**

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50 y/o      New Orleans, Louisiana

Looking for a submissive female a female that’s willing to given total control over to another person loyalty and respect an obeyed role playing test the limitations Of the sub Exploit his journey together

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