Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

26 y/o      United States

Hey! I am seeking an online Dom at the moment but willing to meet in person eventually! Please message me for more info, love.

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  Queensland

Hi! I'm a poly kitten looking for a dom that can show affection outside the bedroom and knows what aftercare is. In return you'll be getting a devoted little sex slave that is willing to do whatever she can to please her master. I'm a hardworking kitty with a full time job so you need to be understanding and flexible with time. Not after a locked in relationship, more something fun and casual that we can both enjoy. If you want to learn more hit me up, in more ways than one ;)
Pansexual so all doms feel free to message me!

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  Chicago, Illinois

Hi,
I'm a little in search of a a true Ddlg relationship. I am pretty experienced and know what it is that I am seeking. I am open to age but would prefer to stay within 30 to 55. Would like If he would be open to attending Munches and going to different kink events. All I ask is that you not be involved with anyone else where I would be your secret. Local would be ideal,but I'm open to relocating. If you would like to further get to know me please read my profile and send me a note.

LGBelle

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55 y/o      New York

Hello and welcome to my profile.

After years of knowing my kinky self, I am finally ready to venture out and find that special someone that I can submit to and ultimately, give myself to. My husband is OK with this, as he does not quite understand the nuances of BDSM. My marital status may change in the future, but please be aware of this situation for now.


I love humiliation, impact play, power exchange, bondage and the thrill that comes with submission. I hope to find someone that I can relate to in and out of the playroom. Please be intelligent, mature and understanding. I am sure that we both have a life filled with family, friends and work, but still seek this special relationship that completes a part of us that is hard for most people to understand. With the right person, I hope to explore and learn more about my in-born submissive desires. And with the right person, I know I can fulfill my deep needs to submit, serve and honor. I just want to find you so we can get to know each other slowly, build the trust necessary and start enjoying the wonderful world of dominance and submission together.


I am too old for games (51), so please be real and honest and I will be the same. Being local is mandatory (Long Island is great, but I can venture off the Island for the right person.) No smokers, please. Drug and disease free a must; humor and good conversation a big plus.

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  West Virginia

experienced sub. i m looking for a serious experienced dom. older age is preferred

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  Mankato, Minnesota

I want to finally submit fully to a man

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28 y/o      San Luis Obispo, California

Aspiring rope bunny desperate for Sir to tie her up, make art out of her body, and use her in whatever way he may please, so long as he worships her afterwards.

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  Manitoba

I am 27 and live in Canada. Looking for something part time and not long term. I’ve never done anything except vanilla sex but have some fantasies/ training I’m looking to try with a master. Things I want to try include pet play, humiliation, degradation, bondage etc. I’m also open to trying other things as well if anyone is into specific things as long as it doesn’t coincide with my limits. Message me for more details if interested.

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27 y/o      Ecuador

I'm currently new on bdsm. After many years I have finally decided to look for dominant.
I'm looking for a long term relationship with a caring dominant. Preferably in person but I'm open for online training if there's the chance for meeting.

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42 y/o      Atmore, Alabama

Hi I'm interested in finding a Master in real life who is single..self sufficient and is willing to work towards a live in situation with me We can start talking online but be willing to meet before I agree to anything. I have never been owned before but I am very willing to learn and open to anything you desire.. I'm very eager to please but I am looking for an all around attraction with a confident Master. I am 38 years old and I would prefer someone at least my age preferably someone older.. I am very intelligent so please be honest and don't waste my time or yours

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  Florida

Looking for a Dominant Man to hold me accountable to my goals. i’m in my mid-20’s and struggling to balance my job, school and diet/exercise plans. The ideal situation would be to set up a system where You and i set goals and i send updates at an agreed upon interval (reflections/photos) throughout the progression. Of course, i will be punished for failing to fulfill your demands! (and maybe rewarded for being a good girl?) This submission will be online only.

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37 y/o      Middletown, Ohio

Hey All, new to the community, but not the lifestyle. Ideally, I would be interested in finding the perfect balance among relationship of someone, who possesses a specific set of qualities. If I find that, awesome.
In the meantime, I could use the helpful distraction of a dominant, attractive male, that might like to role play as “daddy.” Of course I would exude the role as daddy’s naughty “little girl” that desperately needs some correction in the form of punishment. I believe a spanking over daddy’s knee would be deemed necessary.
If interested, get at me. No creeps. And only genuine interests please, & ty. :)

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47 y/o      Winnipeg, Manitoba

I'm a submissive brat and I'm looking for a Dom East indian to similiar race. Younger then me prefered. I am obedient and a fast learner. I love affection and being treated as a toy.

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24 y/o      Denver, Colorado

I'm a young college student looking to explore the lifestyle. I am looking for online and in-person interactions. message me for inquirers and tasks.

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  Wisconsin

Hello,
I am currently looking for something that is Long term in real life no internet dating permanently. Looking for someone to have fun with, take control, and help guide me mentally, physically, and sexually. If my needs are met willing to negotiate on being a dominant or submissive.

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26 y/o      Camuy, Camuy

Hello! I am currently looking for an online Dom! I am a lil bratty but just to make it fun! Hit me up if you are interested!

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  London, England

Fun , adorable cheeky ebony princess waiting to find my perfect daddy , i can be a little bratty at times but my daddy will know how to put me in place ... i like to tease , especially when we are public. I would like to give the perfect daddy total control over me.

My ideal daddy will know when to be kind and when to be rough , ideally i would like a long term daddy and also one that is close to me

I can't wait to meet you daddy...

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  Arkansas

I am looking for a Daddy Dom who has patience and is understanding as well as a firm hand. I tend to be too fiesty at times and dont realise it! Im also looking for a RL commitment. I dont do online or long distance bc I need alot of attention as well as physical contact!! If you think you are up for the task, feel free to message me! ❤

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  Chicago, Illinois

I’m new to this lifestyle and a bit of a brat. I wanna explore what it has to offer. I’ve always been interested but too scared to try anything other than the basic. But I’m here now so come and play ?

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  LaGrange, Georgia

Recently my husbands and I have decided to extend our experience to having our own individual girlfriend or boyfriend while still being married. We aren’t out in the open so it would look like friendships or however we decided.

I’m southern, short, a few extra pounds, but what really makes me me is my mind. I enjoy laughing and making others laugh, I crave affection and touching and teasing are a must. I enjoy being able to have a smart conversation, at the same time I love someone who isn’t afraid to be themselves. Laughing, a smart mouth, laughing at oneself and just being yourself is a must. I love country guys, tattoos, a dirty mouth, and so much else that i would love for you to find out about me.

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  United Kingdom

Curvaceous lady of substance seeks an articulate, creative and warm man. My kinks are varied and adventurous. I love men that are fairly local to me, have a daddy side and also mild sadism. The light with the dark, right?
Latest kinks are erotic hypnotism, predicament bondage, electro play and labia stretching.

Muff
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24 y/o      Quezon City, Metro Manila

[ABSOLUTELY NO PHOTOS OR VIDEOS]
For security purposes.

If you’re okay with that, I’m looking for a good master to train me. I’m looking for a long-term relationship. I want someone to help me manage my day-to-day, and make me feel owned. I will come to you and ask for permission for stuff, like touching myself or talking to other guys. If you like how that sounds, feel free to hit me up and we can talk more.

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  Serbia

There is craving deep inside, and resisting in same time.

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  Alabama

I’m new to BDSM and want to explore. I’m naturally very submissive and have a few kinks I know I’m into (orgasm control/chastity, spanking, serving in and out of bedroom), but I’m open to trying some new things (within reason) to see if I like them.

Ideally we would start online to form a connection, then move to in person, and hopefully have a longterm relationship.

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42 y/o      Indiana

I'm new to kink and looking to explore with someone local. I'm in the central Indiana area.

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  Fayetteville, North Carolina

Thank you reading this advance ☺️

My name is Amanda I’m 34, 5’2 and I am chubby but I am loosing weight. lost 50lbs already, I have a full time job, live by myself and I have a car. This is my first time even posting anything like this. I’ve always held back what really would make me happy in life. I just can’t do it anymore, I feel closed in and incomplete a little about me:

I have a submissive personality. I love to take care of people and want to make someone happy and loved. I’m very caring and loving and I’m big on loyalty, trust and communication. I could be clingy if you want but I don’t mind giving you space when you say. I don’t like talking back, I would trust you with my life and the happiness that we would both need.

I’ve only been with three people and would like to settle down in a relationship that includes both of our needs and wants. I’m an introvert and I’m very quiet but I always listen to what you have to say, I do have a dorky side and I love to laugh.

I want/need to be collard, It would make me feel loved, protected and to know I was someone’s mean so much to me. I always wanted hickeys because that for me is all I can ask for in a vanilla relationship and no one understood why I like them so much.

So for limits
-No blood play
-No animals
-No poop or pee
-No Age play
-No humiliation (I’m self conscious as it is)
-Nothing illegal
And for now that’s all I know on that.

My likes:

-Being dominated
-Hickeys
-Being told what to do
-Bjs
-Being loved on
-Hair pulling
-Ass smacking
-Some Chocking
-Public gratification
Probably a lot of other things but like I said, I’m new. I have a very sexual appetite and I would like to find someone to match that.

On the vanilla side. I love to cook, I play video games, watch movies, I love the beach and the mountains. I would like to go camping and do some road trips.

I would like a ltr with a loyal, dominant man 26-45. (If your younger we can talk about it but no lower then 21) someone who will respect my limitations and not take advantage of my submissive side.

I don’t mind taking it slow and just doing online meetings and figuring us out until the time is right. And if need be I will relocate. I’m in North Carolina.

Thank you again for reading, and hopefully I will hear from someone soon!

Take care,

Your hopefully soon to be someone’s submissive!

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  Asheville, North Carolina

Sexy Female Sub Needs Dom
Im 27, 5’6”. I’m new to bdsm. So I need an experienced Dom to show me the way. I’m very real & know exactly what I want. No online long distance.

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  Mountain Home, Arkansas

Hello... I'm 20 years old and I was looking into sub/dom relationships. I am looking for a dom who is honest, caring, sweet, Stern, loyal, etc. I am really, really shy, so it may take a while to warm up to you. Please be patient. I'm an introverted sub as well. I have no experience as a sub but I'm willing to learn. I don't want to be a fling. I want something real. I'm a virgin...so please be gentle. I am curious as to what a sub can do for her dom. The thought of being "owned and cared for" by a dom makes me feel happy and safe. That's what I'm looking for, protection, happiness, pleasure, and to be owned. I can be a brat sometimes but not all the time. I would really like to take everything slow, I don't want to rush. Rushing things with me stresses me out and I will run away. Let's take things slow and see what happens. I don't want to just jump right into the sexual things, I want to be educated. Care for me, don't hurt me, and mold me to be yours. I don't really like the whole daddy thing but it could change. I'm scared of almost everything as I well lmao. Please message me if you are serious, and sincere about me. Don't pretend to want me and have others subs. I don't want to be just another sub, I want to be your only sub. Love me and I'll love you. If I let the you claim me officially, don't hurt me please.

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  Texas

Im heaven. I'm a little looking for my daddy.. please message me to see if you could be him!

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29 y/o      Maine

Hello Daddy ?? I’m sorry for being away for so long. I had to get myself together before I came back to find you. I miss you very much and I hope I haven’t made you wait to long ? Now lets get down to business. I want my Daddy and I want him now. No fake pages, fake photos, lame pick up lines, or kik messages. The quickest way to get me to not to respond to you is to make me feel uncomfortable like I owe you something. Respect me and I will respect you. I want something real that isn’t going to waste my time. I want my daddy to muscular built and no older than 35. I need my daddy to able to handle me and all I bring to the table. Because for him, I will be the support, natural love, and care that he has never had. I will cherish him beyond any capability of any person in his life and never have him want for nothing. With that, just come to me daddy...

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33 y/o      Tucson, Arizona

Hi there!
I’m a 29 year old from Arizona and I’m looking to be trained in everything that goes with being a little and submission. I’ve had an interest in being subservient for a long time, but only recently was I introduced to the world of being a little.
I’m looking to start slow, messaging when we can, and building from there. I have a roommate who is really amazing, but I’m not interested in enveloping him in to this aspect of my life.
I’m interested in learning more about:
Daddy/little, dom/sub, following routines, orgasm denial/forcing, brainwashing, learning to put daddy/dom first, toy play, primal, degradation.

Aside from that I’m an artist with a deep passionate love for music. I love sharing songs that I love with people only slightly more than I love books. I enjoy running/losing weight, playing video games, cooking, and listening to podcasts while I clean or draw.

I can’t wait to meet you!

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  Swadlincote, England

I am looking for a dominant male for a long term relationship someone who will push my boundaries to the limit in the pleasure side of it not the pain side who I will completely be devoted to them and he must be devoted to me all the time must be loyal kind caring who will care for me no matter what who respects me if you think you can do that get intouch he must be between 25-45 age range smart cute get intouch please x

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37 y/o      California

Looking for a dom into kitten play. Hopefully long term/on going.

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  United States

A part of me registered here out of sheer desperation, if only just to share my own experience in the hope someone can relate. Allow me to explain. I am 23, and unlike most adults my age (male or female), I know what I want, I do not have time to waste, and I HATE playing games. Hence, I usually find it hard to relate to people my age, and often I am drawn to people 15 years older than me. And yes, age is just a number, but at the end of the day, don’t you want to be with someone who can share the same cycles of life with you? I cannot see someone who is 40 willing to put up with the fact that I am still in school, and, thus, not fully financially secure, in addition to the breakneck speed at which I live my life. Which brings me to my next point. I am a very busy person as a young professional - I am in school and I work. I am independent - have been since I was 19. I live alone, and I do what it takes to make ends meet and to pursue my passions. While being an introvert, I have a strong and intense personality, that, I’ve been told, intimidates many people, especially men who cannot keep up with me in my field of study. I am often teased for coming across “innocent” and am often withdrawn and quiet in social situations. But I am very analytical - I process everything around me, notice the smallest details that others don’t, and can analyze emotional tensions in a room. My mind runs faster than I can keep up with at times, and I am grateful for my intellect, but also am profoundly aware of how much there is still to know and how much may never be known. From all this perhaps, I might consider myself a sapiosexual. But enough on that.

If you’ve made it this far, you have seen a glimpse of the intensity I possess, and perhaps a sliver of insanity. Again, this makes it difficult for me to mesh well with anyone my age, even more so with a potential partner. As an objective person viewing my life, one might might be surprised that my intimate desires are so strongly submissive. But again this makes it even harder to find a partner. The balance that I want between my “home” life and “outside” life is hard to understand and most strong Doms that I have met have no interest in this. Perhaps I won’t meet one that does, but as I’m still young, I hold out hope. It doesn’t help me either that I am so picky with a Dom. I had my first real life D/s experience about 5 years ago, and ever since then, I have continued to learn more and more about my own desires. I recognized within myself the capacity to surrender completely and willingly to my partner. This was terrifying to me when I first experienced it, because it is also very dangerous. I have to make sure I am trusting the right person - a person who won’t abuse it. I won’t speak of all my specific interests here, but I greatly enjoy pain and the pushing of my limits - but there is a fine line between pushing too far and breaking me physically versus pushing me in a way to make me further realize the submissive character within myself. I would hope that a good Dom knows that difference. For me, in particular, my Dom would have to be able to know me and my limits and, more importantly, read my body language at any given time. When I say I have the capacity to surrender completely, I don’t say that lightly, and I mean it in its truest sense. Once I have made a decision to trust someone like that, I am the type of submissive that will let that person do anything to me, even if it breaks my limits. That is why I must be picky with who I choose, since the person would hopefully respect my limits and know just how far they can push without causing me trauma. Because if I am with the wrong person who breaks my limits and hurts me, I am so submissive to the point that I would let it happen regardless. Hopefully this makes a bit of sense, as I have written quite a lot about it. For me, this type of relationship is definitely more about the power exchange and trust dynamics at play versus the actual physical actions that are performed.

As I have already written too much, I won’t continue on, though there is much more I could say. And, if you’ve made it all the way through this lengthy exposition, I just want to say thank you.

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28 y/o      Fort Worth, Texas

I’ve never done BDSM but I’m very interested and would like to be trained. I’m a submissive female who can sometimes have an attitude but maybe you can help that. I’m not into TPE, or anything that would cause body damage/scarring. Everything else can be open for discussion. I would like you to take the lead and tell me what you like and how far you want to go so I can meet your needs.

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35 y/o      England

Needy baby girl looking for Daddy. Head over to my profile and message me if you are a Daddy 6ft and taller (I’m 5’8/5’9) who wants a princess to treasure who loves to please her Daddy.

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23 y/o      United States

Hi! I am new to having a dom. I am currently looking and would love to chat!!

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46 y/o      Baytown, Texas

New to this and looking for a good preferably experienced dom. To teach me. Not interested in online only. I want a real life relationship.

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  Vancouver, British Columbia

We both remain anonymous, but share a lot of ourselves while divulging very little about oneself...no pics, no video calls....

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27 y/o      Crestwood, Missouri

Hey ☺ My name is Hayley and I'm hoping to find my first Daddy! For the most part I know what I'm looking for since I've done a TON of research and talked to a lot of people in the community!

I'm currently in an open/poly relationship with my boyfriend, I'm only looking for another partner for myself.

A little of what I'm looking for:
Someone local
No older than 33
Firm but gentle and playful
Open-minded
Patient
Nerdy
Must love cuddles!
Feel free to message me to get to know me and ask me anything you want ?

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  Florida

The title is self explanatory :) If you want to know more about me visit my profile.

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  Tampa, Florida

I am looking for a 24-7 dom..master..owner...god to take control completely fully on all levels

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44 y/o      Colorado Springs, Colorado

I'm looking for a dominant man who is older than myself, single, and looking for longer term.

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  Missouri

I'm a 30 year old little (little age 7) seeking a caring Daddy Dom to take care of me. Daddy needs to be older than me and a good caregiver. I have never had a real daddy and am ready to fully embrace the DDlg lifestyle. I'm 4'11 and 105lbs size 6 shoe can can fit into kids clothes and shoes. DM me if this interests you. <3

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23 y/o      Canada

I am a 19 years old french Canadian girl looking for a dom.
It wouldn't be 24/7, only in a sexual context or when we meet. I'm a strong head in my personal life, I'm only seeking submission in bed. My dom needs to be nice and respectful, 35 or younger preferably. I've never had that kind of relationship before, so he must be patient and trustworthy. I don't give my trust to anyone, and my body neither.
I'm seeking more dominance than pain (punishments, orders, dirty talk, bondage, etc.), but a little pain is always fun.

(I'm sorry if the add isn't perfect, my English isn't neither.)

Can't wait to meet and serve you, sir.

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40 y/o      Malaysia

Thought I’d just take a chance and ask if there are any kinky Christians, specifically those with dominant tendencies out there in their 30s - 40s that is interesting in making friends and maybe, eventually if it works out, to build a relationship. I’m 36 this year, chinese, on the curvy / chubby side, and am looking for someone compatible, or even just to be friends is fine as well.

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  United States

I’m looking for someone to show me this lifestyle. I have always been interested but I have not delved into anything. I am already slightly submissive and committed to exploring. I’m not quite sure what else to put here, I’m willing to however answer any questions.

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22 y/o      Georgia

Hi everyone, my name is Rainey and I’m 18 years old and a submissive. I’m new to the bdsm lifestyle, obviously. I’m looking for the right dom to chat with and get to know. I don’t want someone who is all about sex right away. I don’t want someone who begs for my socials or phone number after ten minutes of talking. I also don’t want someone looking for a quick hook up either. And do not mistake my age for me being gullible or naive either.
With that being said I’m craving to be used by a man. I want to be someone’s submissive, I want to be someone’s stress relief. I want to be told what to do and how to do it.
I’m into attractive, fit men between the ages of 20-40. I like men who dress nice and take care of themselves. I like men who can have a conversation without everything leading back to their accomplishments or achievements. So please if you’re not in shape, or over the age of 40 or below the age of 20, or conceited, please don’t message me. But if you feel that we will be compatible please message me.

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  New Mexico

I’ll give you my full submission if I feel safe. I’m an Alpha that wants taming.

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  New York, New York

Hi, I live in the NYC area and looking for a new dom. I’m very knowledgeable about the lifestyle however, I have had only a few in person interactions. I’m eager to start serving and to be obedient and totally dominated.

Looking for a Dom that is open to both online and eventually in person interactions, who is experienced and eager to train a new sub. I love bondage, impact play and multiple/forced orgasms.

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48 y/o      United States

Greetings. I am hoping to find other demisexuals and sapiosexuals to build long trusting friendships with.

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32 y/o      Henryetta, Oklahoma

Just here looking to see who is out there. I work alot and strange hours so the closer the better. Im currently single. Last daddy/dom i had played me so ive been a little timid to look.
Ill add more once i think about what to say...

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42 y/o      Saskatoon, Saskatchewan

Any Dom's from Saskatchewan? Message me.

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42 y/o      Nevada

I am looking for some IRL D/s play. What is my end game from this? I am seeking someone who will be a friend and confidant. This is not a fairy tale ending I am not looking to ride off into the sunset with anyone. I am looking for another consenting adult to have sex with, to have sex with and to be spanked by for being a complete brat. This will be an IN REAL LIFE friendship that benefits us both and gives us both a break from the every day grind of life.

I am well aware of WHO I AM. It's what you bring to this that interests me.

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35 y/o      Lorain, Ohio

Newbie sub. Teach me. Looking for discreet dom, kind yet rough when needed? ill do what im told just reward me well. Im a lil on the thicker side so can you handle what i have? Just mold me, lick me, spank me, choke me and fuck me hard.

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26 y/o      United States

One's youd like to maybe do to me or one's youve participeted in. Not exacly roleplay i just like to be told the horrible things people could do to me.The more depraved the better im open to mostly everything besides scat. I just want the end result to be complete ruin.

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  South Carolina

Hello:) my name is Alyssa. I am an intelligent, shy, well mannered, sweet sub who hasn't much experience but is eager to please. I’m looking for someone to show me the ropes as I’m new to bdsm

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  London, England

handsome alpha male from england message me

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  Chicago, Illinois

New to the Chicago area, new to BDSM, looking for a professional and open minded dominant male. Well endowed preferred! Experience preferred. Looking for someone to get to know, have as a friend in the community and potentially date on a regular basis. I am also well endowed and curvy. Ready to do as Daddy commands. Message me for further details.

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33 y/o      Wichita, Kansas

Thank you good air for giving me your time. I'm a sub without a Dom and in need of pleasuring a strong man. I want to envelope you in my mouth to taste all of you as well as have you fill me. There are some things I am nervous of but with established trust I will try anything within reason. If I'm not comfortable I will tell you. I'm going to be upfront now on the fact I will not do urine play or scat. I value hygiene and keep myself shaved. I am 5'6", brownish-black hair, brown eyes, 285 pounds for the moment.

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