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A decent sub looking for his Mistress to be with and serve
06/17/2019
Salutations! Beyond cliche at this point, but figure.....what do I have to lose? Okay....enough preamble. I am a submissive male seeking a dominant lady. I've dabbled, mostly online, but haven't had great success.

For me personally, I'm 6'2, 176 pounds, decently fit. I can provide proof if I get a response and we hit it off. I look a little bit like a skinnier viking. Not bragging.....just good way to describe myself. Long red hair and beard as well. I'm seeking a partner, as well as a Mistress. My ideal one would be the head of the household, runs things, etc. But...that doesn't mean we can't go to the movies, the pub, out to eat, etc. I'm not looking to wear a leash in public. Now at home......I'm up for whatever. Limits are the usual ones, no blood, scat, permanent damage, knives, needles, etc. I'm honestly not that into pain, but I will accept it to correct aberrant behavior. I like strict structure, rules, etc. In serving a Mistress before....she gave me a budget, even partially dictated my diet, gave me daily tasks to better myself, etc. I'd be open to online, but I would honestly love to live in person. I think I'd be a good sub for the right Domme. Now do I need some help/training? Absolutely. I haven't been owned much, so I'm kind of yours to mold as you see fit. I'd love someone to own me, but we'd also be in a relationship (possibly). As for what personality I'm looking for.....be around my age, but I'll accept a bit older, younger, etc, case by case basis. I'd prefer someone that is well traveled, cultured as well. Need a sense of humor, and be able to get sarcasm. If The Onion offends you.....we probably won't get along. Also....US residents only. I've been owned by someone overseas and......just not my bag. Thank you for anyone that reads this and....hope to hear from some lovely ladies!
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21 M4F in person or online in Tucson Arizona
06/17/2019
Hello! I'm Reas, and I'm a 21 year old straight male who lives in Tucson.

So, a little about me; I like anime, Star Wars, reading, most scifi, Lord of the Rings, rice, rock music with some odd divergence there, the John Wick series, some comics but not many comics, video games that involve more number crunching than they do actual skill, and being a massive nerd. I'm on the tall side of 6'2, skinny and boney, and a tad clumsy at times. I tend to stay up late and wake up early because I am a terrible planner and must suffer for that sin. I like to sit with a book, read it to its entirety, and then maybe watch some tv. And yes I am something of an introvert.

I enjoy femdom because the mental image of a strong woman with a man at her heels begging for her attention is very hot. I like imagining someone attempting to be in charge, attempting to be on top, only to subtly be told and reminded that they aren't and that its ok that they aren't. I'm not really into blood, scars, real wounds, psychological torture, wax play, knives, and scat. I like the idea of whips and canes, but having never experienced either I'm uncertain. The same applies for chastity. I do like crossdressing, humiliation, and being restrained.

I am kinda just hoping to meet with some people who are interested and want to chat a bit. I would love to meet someone who lived nearby, but I'm equally eager to talk to someone online. So who knows what will happen, with my finger's crossed that its something good
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Submissive male badly wants to get dominated woman
06/17/2019
I'm from San Jose California and if you live close by we can start chatting and get to know each other better before meeting.
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Good boy
06/17/2019
Well I'm looking for a true dominant female to control me online. I like edging, and tease and denial, if this sounds interesting to you, then please take a look at my profile to know more about my kinks in details.
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Submissive Man seeking Dom female
06/17/2019
I'm a business professional and really want someone who wants to control my sexual activity. I'm currently self caged and don't let myself out for as long as I can take it. Looking for someone to push my sexual limits. I'm bi sexual and want to be put in situations of whore and given humiliating daily tasks. What panties to wear, plug, diaper, sex acts to engage in. Basically I want to do as you say and be treated like a sissy cum slut. I hope this is acceptable and will wait for further instructions. Respectfully Chris
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slave boy for dom m,f or couple
06/16/2019
any open cages in colorado?
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24/7 365 Total Power Exchange slave
06/16/2019
Experienced full time slave searching for a sadistic and depraved Mistress to use abuse humiliate degrade and defile me in a Total Power Exchange relationship. This slave has been trained in virtually all aspects of the BDSM lifestyle including forced bi and toilet slavery. 100% submissive and masochistic
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male sub
06/16/2019
looking for lady dom in north new jersey very open for most thing
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Well-trained, submissive naked boy looking for my next Queen to submit to fully :)
06/16/2019
24 year old obedient, submissive boy here. Looking for my next Mistress to kneel before, naked, smooth bald, on a tight leash outdoors (maybe in public.. ;) ) and look up at with a smile as I eagerly await my next command. I stay as fit & toned, tan, & sexy as I can year round so that I always look my best for my Queen (and maybe her friends..;)). I am well-behaved, compliant, and prompt when given orders. Looking forward to hearing from you.!! ;) Let me show you what a good boy I am. :)
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Submissive white male
06/16/2019
I'm a 51 year old white submissive older man looking for a dominant aggressive bossy controlling bbw ssbbw woman. A female led relationship.
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24 sub male LF Domme
06/16/2019
Hello and thanks for reading my ad! I’m gonna try to be as detailed as possible so might be a little long.

I am a sub from NJ looking for the right female partner nearby to make something both kinky and special. I’ve had experience subbing and enjoyed the time I had so I’m definitely looking for someone to grow a real connection with!

I know this kinda sounds corny but I kinda am corny but I think it’s because I’m genuine and say what’s on my mind when I think it’s appropriate. I’ve also been told I’m very patient so take that however you’d like haha.

Anyway Right now I’m a law student and I just finished my first year. I’m definitely enjoying myself but it was a lot more work than I planned for. I like to think I’m pretty funny if you’ve got a darker sense of humor and don’t mind some dry humor. I’m about average size but I do want to lose a bit of weight and go to the gym more. For fun I usually like to do work around the house or relax. I’m definitely a homebody and Ive started to like doing projects at my current apartment. I also like playing games, either board games or tabletop or video games. I am 420 friendly and like to smoke to relax mostly. Though I like to read, I haven’t found much time outside of audio books but I’m a big fantasy book fan. Another thing is that I’m a Christian but I don’t practice as often as I should. I don’t mind making fun of sacred cows and such sometimes but I don’t want that to come from a place so I’d ask that you have respect for that.

So into the kinky part now. I’m a big fan of tease and denial. I enjoy bondage too and sensory deprivation. I also like being pegged and pet play sometimes as well. I have a love-hate relationship with chastity but I do like that too. Im also a sucker for praise and doing tasks to make you happy or your day better. Im an optimistic guy so I try to look on the bright side.

My hard limits would be scar/blood/permanent marks. Nothing illegal or too public. Other than that is that I’m not a masochist but I don’t mind pain if thag makes sense haha.

Anyway if you’ve gotten this far thank you so much for reading. I hope you got a very positive vibe because that’s the kind of guy I am really. I hope to hear from you soon!
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currently uncollared
06/16/2019
Hey everyone I'm a currently uncollared submissive seeking Mistress I can completely surrender to. It's so frustrating trying to find someone real that'll train me to become her willing slut. My limits are no blood cutting permanent marks scaring feces animals or underage. Other than that I'm willing to explore and experiment with Mistress .
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Texas man seeks Texas femdom
06/15/2019
Howdy...
Let's get to know one another.. Stand up guy here...seeks tuff yet sensitive fem to please.
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looking to serve
06/15/2019
looking to serve a mistriess on here to see if i would weather be a sub for my mistress
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First time sub seeking female DOM ( serious about lifestyle)
06/14/2019
First time sub looking for female dom. I am serious about getting into the lifestyle. I have never done anything kink before or been a submissive. But I’ve been excited by it since I was a young boy. I’m not comfortable putting my image or info on this cite but I would be grateful to be able to send you pictures. I am 6 foot, white, 25 years old slightly pudgy 186 pounds but willing to change my diet/ workout to make myself you ideal slave.

I live is Massachusetts but as your sub it would be my duty to travel every week to see my mistress.

Willing to experiment with most things within reason. Should talk first

Regarding relocation. I have never been a sub before but am ready to be trained by a tough mistress. If it is something I truly enjoy I would relocate

I am wholly inferior to you. I am just an item to be used or misused or broken however my owner wants.

The reason you should choose me is because there is nothing like the experience of breaking in something new. Wholly inexperienced/ naive but ready to serve
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N.Y.C Submissive Looking for a Dominant Woman
06/14/2019
Hello! I'm Rick and I've been exploring the lifestyle for a few years now in New York City. I've managed to gain quite a bit of experience with kinky play since my journey started, but I've yet to engage with an experienced partner. I'm interested in learning about submission, kink, and where exactly I fit into all of it. I'm looking for a Dominant partner who enjoys teaching budding young submissives. I am young, slim very tall, and of course eager to learn all I can. I'm an open book, so feel free to ask me anything you like. Always happy to chat with anyone who's either interested or just curious about me!
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Sub in Crystal Lake. Il
06/14/2019
Hi, I´m a submissive 38 years old, from Europe looking for a Mistress. I like to serve and obey because I know where is my place.
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Slave boy
06/14/2019
Your slave is 50 yr old bi but more into woman. Im looking for mistress that will use her slave and control me. I used to be a dom but found out im a slave and what no control. New to being a slave willing to learn just online for now
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Webcam submissive
06/13/2019
Looking for a Mistress to dominate me over webcam/kik, im in to sph, joi, cbt, xdress. Willing to eat cum if ordered to.
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Mid Tenn. Let me serve you
06/13/2019
Check my profile. Pm for more info serious inquiries only. I need a goddess to worship.
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