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I just like to show off
I just have a real thing for dominate women, especially if they're older than me..if you like using a man like a slut in your sub...message me for my Skype
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Looking For A Domme
I am 21 and new to this. I am looking for a domme to train me. My interests include chastity, pegging, feminization, edging, orgasm control, bondage, and am willing to try forced bi. If this interests you, my DM's are open!
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Young artist/writer with years of prelim' practice :)
Hiya! I'm looking for a calm, but passionate relationship with a woman (or man) younger than 35 who's fine to take it slow and build a decent foundation for a lifestyle-oriented arrangement (online alright to start, if need be). I'm 5'7'' and 120lb - compact and portable. I've been interested in/practicing self-bondage for about 6 years, though unfortunately I don't have much experience in a BDSM style relationship (though, quite eager to learn the ropes, pun intended). I prefer the relationship to be based on mutual respect, and I'm not looking for any kind of financial slavery/control situation - that's not really in-line with my career ambitions and it seems like shaky grounds anyhow. I work from home as a freelance artist and writer for video games, do ink drawings, and enjoy hockey, cats, and Chinese food. If you're a dom and looking for someone who will respect you and your work as much as your presence, demeanor, and sexual vitality, please shoot me a message or read my profile to get to know me a little better (and then maybe a message). Thanks for reading this far :)
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Discipline and punishment
Seeking a local Domme that would like a submissive gentleman to serve her once a week at her place here in Indianapolis or surrounding area. I'm not interested in online arrangements only real life.
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Submissive man
I am 56 very submissive I enjoy being controlled in chastity. I am hoping to meet a lady for AN FLR I love giving oral and massages . I'll give the key to my lady and please her as much as I can hope to meet her soon
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Young guy looking for a mistress in MD to sexually dominate me IRL
Hoping to find a Mistress in Maryland who is interested in starting a D/s relationship
with me so I can explore and experience some of my deepest fetishes and kinks!
Here's a little about myself and my interests. Hopefully they align with yours so we can make something happen.

About Me:
White male // 21yo // 6'1", 160lbs // 5.5" penis, not particularly noteworthy tbh
compassionate, intelligent, warm, and a glass half full type of person
drug and disease free // well groomed // strongly introverted

Interests(in rough order of importance to me):
strong oral fixation, oral sex, kissing licking body parts, gags // rope bondage, cuffs, spreader bars and more // facesitting / queening
male chastity, I self lock pretty frequently, have yet to find a key holder // sensory deprivation // anal/pegging
spanking / light stinging // light interest in watersports // some other stuff I've probably forgotten
I also enjoy the entire genre of gentle femdom, I love acts of affection mixed in with my torture

Montgomery County, MD // I can't host, sorry. I'll be able to meet halfway though.

About you:
Female, ideally white but that's not very important to me // 21-40 yo, soft upper limit // reasonably decent shape and well groomed
drug and disease free // caring but stern, upbeat person // can host or can travel halfway

Thanks for reading. I hope to hear from my new mistress soon!
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Hello, I’m Bren and I’m new to bdsm, however I’ve always dreamed of being owned by a woman, I want to be her slave and be punished and abused. What turns me on is me knowing that they’re getting off to torturing me, especially if it’s to my genitals. I’m a slim guy, 5’8”, and I’m white and 18 yo. All I ask of my dominatrix is that she is thin or at most thick. I prefer older women idk why, but my age range is 18-45, maybe 50. My limits are bringing in other guys, blood, scarring, and anything permanent. Anything else is up to my mistress. If I sound like a toy you’d like to punish or use message me. Btw I’m in the San Diego area.
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28 year old, sub/save looking for femdom
-140 pounds
-white/light skin tone
-hzl eyes
-Brown hair
-clean shaved/very little body hair.
-very clean, normally take two showers a day.
28 years old * I look 20*
-great sense of humor, if I do say so myself.

Looking for decent looking dom that's into sissies/mtf transformation/chasity/bondage/pegging(all types) please be younger than 40. I make decent money and would be willing to travel around the USA, and maybe relocate after some time.

-Limits and no-goes, No children/illegal drugs/smoking/scat or anything illegal.
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Submissive white male
I'm a submissive older 51 male looking for a dominant aggressive bossy controlling bbw ssbbw woman. A female led relationship. I have been in BDSM for 6 years now and I have never been owned. I'm very submissive sexually and open minded and bi curious and freaky and kinky. I have played online with a dominant woman but I'm looking to be owned for real and I live alone and live in Sulphur,Oklahoma. I'm not here for games. I'm looking for the real thing.
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sub seeks dominant female for vanilla bdsm relationship
interested in ny only dommes for a female led relationship
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Male Sub looking for first time Mistress
I have been a member of this site for little but never found anything has come from it but people wanting money. I still have never found a Mistress or engaged in anything BDSM. Im hoping to find someone who understands privacy and human connection. Something online only and friendly. To be upfront my limits are scatplay, crossdressing/sissy, and extreme pain. My biggest turn ons are women in lingerie with long satin or silk gloves who love to dominate. I am ready to learn and explore BDSM with the right person.
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Looking for an online mistress
Looking to seeve
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willing to submit
Eager to be owned by woman. like to be collared and trained. age play cool, infant up to adult and forced bondage.. willing to be locked in chasity as well. online to eventual in person. do have pic phone for assignments. let know what you want from this pathetic sub,
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Naturally Submissive Male Looking For Dominant Woman or Couple UK Has Been Used In Breeding
Hi i am a naturally submissive Male genuine and looking for real time not cyber.
I take this lifestyle seriously as i need to live out my true submissive nature with a dominant woman or couple as you do in your dominant role so use me to live out your dominance through me.
I can be trained and turned into the sub slave you desire and i am eager to please and take the punishment for correction or just your amusement.
I have had experience in the lifestyle and mixing with other Domes and subs and used in all aspects of my submissive nature and have been used in breeding with success.
I am here for you not me..
About me..
5ft10 tall
slim build
blue eyes
fair hair
penis 7 inches at erection
reproductive organs producing sperm and proven
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Domestic servitude
Newbie here located in dc area lookingvto explore sub side by being a houseboy laundrybitch for a goddess located in the dc va area. Hope to hear from you.
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Curious mind needs training
I have never done this before , but I would like to explore and be trained as a sub, I have done one or two this as a sub but only the basics, and not very long.
I know My pain threshold isn’t the greatest , but again I think it’s down to training .
I am open minded.

Hope I can find the right people .
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27 yo bi sub-boy in nj needs a mistress
shoot me a message please, mistress?
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Honest age 66 Seeks true sub seeks Female Led Relationship.
I'm 66 young with a good number of years past in relationships that were truly Female Led, with women who were upfront, domineering, honest, strict though non abusive, very controlling, loving, I gave views, suggestions, comments when asked to do so...but it was more righteous and pleasing to know that the Woman would always have the final say so, and the final decision. I have come to know as fact...that Women truly are Superior to men and have every right to train their man, to set rules, to set protocols and correct their males whenever they do wrong, displease, disobey a rule or command or fail to follow taught protocols. I am real and sincere...a retired cook, now on Social Security alone, seeking a real, sincere and Superior Woman that I can look up to, honor, serve, obey and hopefully come to love and adore her.
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Submissive Man seeking Dom female
I'm a business professional and really want someone who wants to control my sexual activity. I'm currently self caged and don't let myself out for as long as I can take it. Looking for someone to push my sexual limits. I'm bi sexual and want to be put in situations of whore and given humiliating daily tasks. What panties to wear, plug, diaper, sex acts to engage in. Basically I want to do as you say and be treated like a sissy cum slut. I hope this is acceptable and will wait for further instructions. Respectfully Chris
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male sub
looking for lady dom in north new jersey very open for most thing
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