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Sub4u
Hi I'm sub Jim and all my life I've been looking for a dominatrix is what I am here for I know rules its woman so please allow me to do what I was born to do thank you
08/21/2019
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Submissive white male
I'm a submissive older 51 male looking for a dominant aggressive bossy controlling bbw ssbbw woman. A female led relationship. I have been in BDSM for 6 years now and I have never been owned. I'm very submissive sexually and open minded and bi curious and freaky and kinky. I have played online with a dominant woman but I'm looking to be owned for real and I live alone and live in Sulphur,Oklahoma. I'm not here for games. I'm looking for the real thing.
08/21/2019
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Sub male looking for dom female
Looking for a dom who can push me out of my boundaries to try new things with and open to most things.
08/21/2019
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Slave Jim seeking local Mistress
Slave Jim is seeking a local Mistress for regular sessions. I am a good slave and will try to make you happy. I understand your time is important. I am dependable and reliable and hope to find a real Mistress interesting in having this slave please her.
08/21/2019
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Discipline and punishment
Seeking a local Domme that would like a submissive gentleman to serve her once a week at her place here in Indianapolis or surrounding area. I'm not interested in online arrangements only real life.
08/20/2019
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currently uncollared
Hey everyone I'm a currently uncollared submissive seeking Mistress I can completely surrender to. It's so frustrating trying to find someone real that'll train me to become her willing slut. My limits are no blood cutting permanent marks scaring feces animals or underage. Other than that I'm willing to explore and experiment with Mistress .
08/20/2019
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Young submissive male
Im 19 years old living in ohio looking for a mistress/keyholder. please message me if you are interested in this. i am 6ft 1in with brown hair and a toned body ( im a swimmer). does not need to be face to face but the closer the better.
08/20/2019
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New to being a sub
Hello I knew to being a sub as you can probably tell by my name but I just recently discovered that I like serving/worshiping/ obeying a female Dom. I'm into most everything and mostly making my son happy. I also kinda like adbl but if my Dom is not into that than it's fine because I'm here to make my Dom happy and to worship them. I'm okay with any type of female Dom but if I had to pick I would like them to be aggressive and an alpha. But at the end of the day I'll be happy making any Dom happy and getting a chance to be a sub. Thanks for taking your time to read this and I'll be happy to answer any questions you may have.
08/20/2019
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Looking for a dominant woman
As the title says, I'm looking for a dominant woman to take control of me and use me as her personal play thing. Feel free to message me and hopefully we can hit off.
08/20/2019
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Online Sub looking for his Mistress
Hello!
I'm looking for a dominant woman to obey and follow her instructions.
I like edging and getting my orgasm controlled.
If you would like to know more about me, please check my profile.
Thank you
08/19/2019
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East coast
Looking for any dommes in New Jersey, I have yet to find anyone.
08/19/2019
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Hi I am a switch. But I love to be a submissive male to a dominant female.
Age doesn't matter. Ethnicity don't matter as far as able to speak in English. I am new to community so would love to explore it.
08/19/2019
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Manchester 31 Male looking for Mistress
Hi I'm David, a 31 year old white British male and I'm looking for a dominant woman to please.

I'm a very honest and caring person. I try to always put others before myself and help when I feel I can.

I'm looking for a Domme to train me and help me understand my submissive side better. I've been attracted to dominant and strong minded women since I was a teenager and am looking for that special somebody to serve.

I understand my role as a sub completely, I'm very polite and always use the manners i was raised with.

I've been on here for a while and am still trying to find the right Mistress to serve.

Thanks for taking the time to read this,

David
08/19/2019
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A decent sub looking for his Mistress to be with and serve
Salutations! Beyond cliche at this point, but figure.....what do I have to lose? Okay....enough preamble. I am a submissive male seeking a dominant lady. I've dabbled, mostly online, but haven't had great success.

For me personally, I'm 6'2, 176 pounds, decently fit. I can provide proof if I get a response and we hit it off. I look a little bit like a skinnier viking. Not bragging.....just good way to describe myself. Long red hair and beard as well. I'm seeking a partner, as well as a Mistress. My ideal one would be the head of the household, runs things, etc. But...that doesn't mean we can't go to the movies, the pub, out to eat, etc. I'm not looking to wear a leash in public. Now at home......I'm up for whatever. Limits are the usual ones, no blood, scat, permanent damage, knives, needles, etc. I'm honestly not that into pain, but I will accept it to correct aberrant behavior. I like strict structure, rules, etc. In serving a Mistress before....she gave me a budget, even partially dictated my diet, gave me daily tasks to better myself, etc. I'd be open to online, but I would honestly love to live in person. I think I'd be a good sub for the right Domme. Now do I need some help/training? Absolutely. I haven't been owned much, so I'm kind of yours to mold as you see fit. I'd love someone to own me, but we'd also be in a relationship (possibly). As for what personality I'm looking for.....be around my age, but I'll accept a bit older, younger, etc, case by case basis. I'd prefer someone that is well traveled, cultured as well. Need a sense of humor, and be able to get sarcasm. If The Onion offends you.....we probably won't get along. Also....US residents only. I've been owned by someone overseas and......just not my bag. Thank you for anyone that reads this and....hope to hear from some lovely ladies!
08/19/2019
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Looking for another dominant female
so my Mistress diane can have fun dominating me with another female with pegging and possibly more we have been in the lifestyle for about 15 years now
08/19/2019
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Dutch sub looking for first LTR Domme
I am posting here looking for a Domme for a longer term relationship, first online only, but I am open to in person after a while if possible. Not very picky when it comes to age/body type, but I'd prefer <45 and not obese. I am fairly new to D/s but have had a few short online encounters. Although these where very satisfying they have left me craving for a more intense connection, which I believe can only be had after we manage to build a bond of trust over time. About me: I am Sebas, a 26 year old, 165cm (6'4") tall, 90kg weighing guy living in the Netherlands. During the week I work a 9-5 office job. Outside working hours I like to spend my time reading, hanging out with friends, watching Netflix, gaming, running and traveling to new places if I have the time. I am not a very open person at first, but this changes when I get to know and trust people. I am looking for a Domme that would like to go on a journey with me to find out what kind of D/s relation would work best for us. I might be inexperienced in lots of areas, but I am open to try a lot of new things to remedy that. What I am not looking for is a Domme that is only interested in someone to serve him without consideration for me. The fact that I am submissive doesn't mean I'm worth less. My kinks that I know of so far: Orgasm control, toys and bondage. This list will probably expand quickly after I have tried new things. Limits: Drugs, Public exposure, harsh pain, (very young) age play, anything illegal, findom, watersports and scatt. Again probably not complete. If you are interested after reading this then I'd love to hear from you. I am of course able to send a verification picture if requested.
08/19/2019
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Submissive Man seeking Dom female
I'm a business professional and really want someone who wants to control my sexual activity. I'm currently self caged and don't let myself out for as long as I can take it. Looking for someone to push my sexual limits. I'm bi sexual and want to be put in situations of whore and given humiliating daily tasks. What panties to wear, plug, diaper, sex acts to engage in. Basically I want to do as you say and be treated like a sissy cum slut. I hope this is acceptable and will wait for further instructions. Respectfully Chris
08/18/2019
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Sadomasochist boy for LTR.
Hello. Seeing if she’s out there. A BDSM lover.
08/18/2019
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I want you to use me
Always desired a woman to take control. I just thought she would have me give her body massages and go down on her when and where ever she pleased . I always liked the idea of her being with her friends and she makes me rub and kiss her body and has me going down on her while I have to pay lay with myself for her enjoyment. Having her and her friends use and abuse me . I really want to know what a dominant woman does and what she enjoys and I don't want her not to do whatever it is she wants I want it all
08/18/2019
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submissive male seeking servatude
I am a submissive to the female touch and this has been my position for the past ten years. I am leaving my mistress, as am I asked to and will be traveling from the Boston area for eastern Kentucky. I will be alone. my desire to please has engulfed my life for so many years, now my desires will have no place. let me served you, let me wash your floors, your toilets, your feet. let me kneel before you, offering myself. if I do not please, punish me, place me in a cage to be forgotten. I will wait to serve you again. I do not want to be marked, I want to please, to taste you, all of you. to find my place at your feet then possible be forgotten. if this offering may pleases you, please contact me and maybe a part of my journey will be my servatude to you.
08/18/2019
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