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Sub in NC
I’m looking to train a new sub in the RDU area of NC. Whether you have some experience or none, I’m excited for a new challenge. Single or married doesn’t matter. Message me with any questions or interest.
08/19/2019
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What I have to offer
There's a certain trend with these ads. They always solicit in search of something else, what the poster wants out of a partner. While there's nothing wrong with this, and it can certainly be quite effective, let's take a different approach. I'd like to list what I believe I bring to the table in a relationship. Granted, I might be a biased source, but I'll do my best to stay as accurate and honest as possible.

First, I'm certain of what I'm looking for, and what I'm open to. The best descriptor for me would be a switch, but with a certain caveat. I *don't* need a relationship where the power dynamic actively shifts. What I do need, however, is a relationship built on trust, communication, and emotional support for both involved. Whether my role in this relationship is Dominant or submissive, I'll be happy. I'm also open to something long distance, and I have the patience necessary to make long distance work.

Second, I have experience. While there's definitely more seasoned veterans in the lifestyle, I have put in seven years. You definitely won't have to deal with the growing pains of someone who's only just now discovered it.

Third, I bring creativity to the table. I'm an erotica author. It's par for the course.

Fourth, and probably most importantly, I have excellent conflict de-escalation skills. I'm quite talented at bringing people down from an argument, and talking about their problems and why they feel the way they do. As you can expect, this gets a lot of mileage when it comes to romantic relationships.

While I certainly thing I have more than four positive traits, I need to leave some things for you to learn. My profile has more on my limits, and what I'm looking for specifically. If what I've shared sounds like a partner you'd be interested in, I look forward to hearing from you.
08/19/2019
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Dom Seeking Newbie Sub!
I am seeking a long term newbie to train and serve my desires! I am experienced,knowledgeable and looking for a live in sub. I am in the Massachusetts area,so location is important,but not impossible if your willing to relocate. I am a daddy and looking for newbies who need a daddy Dom. I am strictly firm,but fair. I demand obedience,but a loving daddy,who will take care of his daddy duties! Tell me about what you seek and why,to see if we are a match!
08/19/2019
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Younger Dom Seeks Submissive Woman/Trans
Younger Dom Seeks Submissive
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a PM. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 20 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living in the DC area I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from as far away as Australia and it worked out so really anywhere is fine. I am a massive gamer and nerd so being my submissive means you will need to put up with that. I also do volunteer work, fist aid training, and I make lovely audios you can have a look at on my profile. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it's a side of intimacy I think gets overlooked in the BDSM community. My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. Always wanted to use a remote controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that. What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, ages 18-40 (will discuss older), respectful , caring, someone who can be both my best friend, my lover, and my little fuck toy. Limits: Ageplay, rape, kidnapping, significant abuse (ask me about it), blood (bruises and scratches are fine), needles. Feel free to ask me about any of these. I am a flexible dominant and so I really like to get to know my submissives so I can be the type of Dominant they need me to be. If you made it this far thank you again, please send me a PM even if you aren't interested and just have a question or want to talk. Have a nice day!
08/19/2019
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Spankings in Minnesota
I am looking for a spankee in Minnesota I am 56 white and no pay to play. I just love spanking naughty bottoms.
08/18/2019
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Need a dom
Wish to meet up and be dominated
08/18/2019
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Iso dominate mistress/ master
Hi I'm Michelle Scott toilet slut slave whore pig for humiliation domination embarrassment sissyfication blackmail exposure cbt vacuum pumping my kunt pet breeding gangbangs cross dressing bdsm cum/ piss/ poo swallowing group humiliation all on video to use against me and make me your BITCH hehee PLEEEAAASE im begging for a dom to feminize me into ruin
08/18/2019
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Dom pa male for sub
Hi I’m a married dom male looking for a discreet sub for either online or in person ownership.
08/18/2019
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Need someone to play with - Louisville, KY
Im young (mature for my age through experiences) athletically fit, sarcastic, and willing and able to be trained by a mistress. Im a bit of a novice but im very eager to treat an intelligent attractive woman as my superior. Top fetishes are strapon, feminization, humilation, and sissy slut. Im looking for someone local so we can chat online for a bit then meet in person regularly. Ideally, id hope to form a somewhat meaningful and rewarding relationship. Serious inquiries only and age isnt really important but hyigene is!
08/17/2019
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M/s seeks second pet
29 year old Master and 20 year old pet, seeks second girl to join our poly family. Seeking between 18-26.
Must be comfortable with enforced nudity, as you will only wear your collar at home.
08/17/2019
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Looking for a slave to complete us.
We are a couple, Dom male-36, slave female-31, looking for a female slave to complete our family. East Asian or Caucasian. She needs to be ~28-40, open minded, willing to learn, sense of humor, inexperience is fine, we will be happy to teach you. Our profile is very detailed, please look it over and make sure we are a proper fit for you. We have skype and discord for communication for the time being, we are open to answer any questions one might have so feel free to fire away any that might come to mind.Hope to hear from you.

Necro & pickles
08/17/2019
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you enjoy
you name it
08/17/2019
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Nothing's off limits ;D
Please tie me down and use me in every way you please. What you decide to do to me is final, because your word is absolute. I will exist for only you and your pleasure. Let's get weird ;)
08/17/2019
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ISO 24/7 Tormentor
I am seeking a sadistic man, woman, or couple who wants complete & utter control. I am not into or interested in light play. I want to suffer, not play ridiculous games with safe words and/or lame limits. I want to be degraded. I want to be hurt. I want to be beaten black & blue, branded, bitch-slapped & spat upon. I want to be chained and in chastity, and have my genitals tortured until I'm not a male anymore. I don't want to feel anything but pain until I am totally broken & thrown away, at long last.
08/17/2019
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sissy sex slave/domesticated servant
Submissive sissy transsexual
Mature sissy white boi maid I am a lifestyle slave, a fucktoy and maid. I am pussy, a mouth, tits and an ass meant to be used and put to use. I am nothing more than an object. I am 51 but look more like 38-40. I am healthy, clean and disease free with full labs run every 3 months. I am on hormones and have been castrated in preparation for a penile inversion vaginal angioplasty. I am looking to serve a lifestyle Dom or Domme in a 24/7 365 live in TPE forever situation.
08/17/2019
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Sub seeking transgender mistress or a mistress
Hello I'm wanting to be someone's sluty whore and be treated as one be fully dominated and owned my hole is yours to open my pinis is yours to pls I still have some to learn but very willing and have very good manners always so come get me let me be your cum slut fuck toy
08/17/2019
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Intimidation seeks Submission
Seeking a sub who accepts that they are different, and wants a safety net to teach them how to grow and make them stronger and more dependent on me as time goes on. I embrace your kink, be it d/l, daddy issues, tpe, or just the desire/need to serve to feel normal. To read more about what it is that I'm looking for read my profile.
08/16/2019
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Looking for a discreet play relationship
I am a married Dom I am also an artist who is looking for my muse, my canvas, my willing partner in crime. I am a gentle Dom but at times I can be demanding. I am in shape and do enjoy yoga, outdoor activities and indoor activities too;)
When I am not busy I enjoy sitting down with a single malt, a good book and soft music to while away the day.
I am open to all roles such as subs, slaves, switches and Dommes. I believe in good communication and placing everything on the table to explore.

What I do requires a long term commitment and a trust between each other. I do look out for best for my sub, slave or partner. I like to bodypaint and costume play. I also have other kinks too such as food play, blindfolds, massage, latex, and mask play.
I been active in this lifestyle for several years now. The problem I face is my life partner has decided not to be involved in the lifestyle anymore. She feels age has come against her.
I would like to find someone who is flexible in meeting up and willing to explore locally. The other piece is I do travel for work and if you can meet me while on the road that will be a plus too.
Limits
No blood, scat,drugs, under age or anything illegal.
08/15/2019
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Experienced, and versatile!!!
Am a wizard in the fine art of dominance and slave training! A truly devoted and passionate in all my pursuits! Do get yourself set for a truly fantastic introduction to absolute bliss!!!
08/15/2019
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East Coast Gal
Lol I don't have experience in this. I've been having odd thoughts about it, but Im from the East coast. Located in new england.. I guess I want someone to spank me lol.. soo if you're interested message me and let me know what you have planned?
08/15/2019
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