Fellow kinksters of The Cage,
Hi! Thank you for being here, allowing me to post, and taking the time to read my ad.
I am a 34 year old technologist that wears a lot of hats. Kind of nerdy, prefers staying home save for the occasional night out. I've been told at multiple munches by submissive ladies that I'd make a great daddy dom, but sadly, it is *so* not my thing. Have a film credit on a documentary, credited on a patent for a novel invention, mixed music live and recorded, and thought really hard about tracking/engineering a podcast for my girl. Cisgendered and heterosexual. Atheist, voluntaryist. White, 5' 10", 390lbs.
She is 42, intelligent, loves our four cats dearly, and is passionate about medicine, traveling, and exploring our world. Can't wait to get out of the house. She has an incredibly kind heart that can't stand to see things suffer, unless, for some reason, those things are pretty slave girls. That's how we ended up with 4 stray cats and that one black widow spider that was her pet for a while. She speaks English, Russian, and Spanish fluently, with understanding in several other languages. Thought really hard about starting a podcast. Cisgendered and bisexual[1]. Shamanist, kind of all over the place. White, 5' 7", 150lbs. (temporarily ~170 due to some medication, but she still looks fucking fantastic)
We have no children, nor really want them. (She kind of wants to experience child birth, but doesn't actually want to bring a child into this world.)
We're a perfect match, right? But for whatever reason, we love each other, and have been together for 6 years in a fantastic and stable relationship that isn't ending any time soon.
I am searching for a wonderfully willing, cisgendered female slave to probe the depths of a property and ownership relationship dynamic with. I am specifically hoping to find someone excited and passionate about this dynamic, who wants to explore just how far it can be taken and just how intense and real it can become. I am searching for veracity, not verisimilitude.
I am not looking for a "sister slave." My girlfriend is not a slave. Neither am I seeking a slave that wants to be owned by us both. My girlfriend is not an owner. I am looking for someone OK with being mine, but who understands that I share my things with my girlfriend. I am hopeful this thing will eventually gel into a sort of triad of some form. But whatever the case, it is important that the two of you like each other as well.
For that reason, it would probably be ideal if potential mates were bisexual. I could see a hetero- or homosexual woman with a true slave mindset working, but it would be odd for her not to want a more appropriately matched dynamic for herself. Still, if she has a good explanation, I'll consider it.
I am OK with inexperience, but expect me to probe you for a long, long time and do everything I possibly can think of to ensure that you fully understand what you are asking for, have considered the implications of it thoroughly, and have come to the rational and voluntary decision that it is what you want.
We are searching for a long-term/lifetime, live-together relationship, if we can find one.
Attraction is a complex thing with many factors that *strongly* include personality and submissive desire, and we're sometimes surprised by who we find attractive, so we are open to pretty much any body type. We do find we tend to be more readily attracted to ladies that are short, though -- shorter than 5' 7" and especially 5' 0" - 5' 4". I also tend towards a preference for thin and small breasted, while she prefers chubby and large breasted. *shrugs*
Emotional maturity and good health are more important than age, and I am open to talking to anyone that wants to talk with me, but someone late 20s to late 40s probably has the best chance of meshing well with us.
Because we want to be with you in real life, we are open to anyone, anywhere in the world who can relocate to us. We are open to relocation to Southern Florida for those who can't. And anyone in Eastern or Southern Washington, Northern Oregon, or Western Idaho is probably close enough that we can figure something out.
She is burnt out by online dating, so while I'd love for you to talk to her as soon as possible, she prefers that first contact with her be made via video call, or phone call if that isn't possible. For that reason, if you choose to respond, please be ready and willing to engage in a call without too much delay. We promise to be respectful, and you don't have to dress up or wear makeup or anything. The purpose of this is mostly to establish mutual authenticity and push past the awkwardness of that first call. It also, of course, means that initially you'll be talking with me. When you are comfortable moving on to a call, I will set something up. For those that are local, if any exist, there is of course the option of meeting somewhere public, with appropriate pandemic precautions. Maybe coffee or boba or froyo.
If you found this ad too long and overly wordy, we're probably not a match. I'm actually being pretty restrained right now. ;)
My kinks are ownership, obedience, vulnerability, and trust. I am open to nearly any kink or fetish that demonstrates the aforementioned from a submissive, and hope to explore them all. RACK/PRICK. Limits: Age play, diapers, dd/lg (as a lifestyle, occasional is OK), pet play (as a lifestyle, occasional is OK).
Thanks again for reading. I have been searching for you for a long time, but I haven't found you yet. Hopefully you will find me.
[1] For some reason, I often receive skepticism of the claim of bisexuality, or get asked something like "How bisexual?" or "Does she really like women?" She is not bi-curious. She has had exclusive, long term, sexual and romantic relationships with both genders in both roles. She is a *bi switch*, OK? If you don't believe me, you can talk to her yourself.
