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Married Dom for Sub
Hi I’m a married dom male looking for a discreet sub for either online or in person ownership. I also love to explore different kink/fetishes. I'm from PA
10/14/2019
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Husband and wife seeking sub toy
We are seeking a toy (trans or female) to be my wife’s shopping partner and to sexually fulfill her needs. You will be submissive to me as she is. Your attire and style will be molded to my satisfaction.
10/14/2019
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Slave seeking owner
I'm seeking to be an owned 25/7 live house slave/ maid will sign slave contract am registered on slave registry site
10/14/2019
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Muslim Sub is Required
My Master is looking to marry a Muslim Girl
10/13/2019
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Bbc Bull
Sensitive big black cock that rock hard most of the time seeking white female with high sex drives, and love worshiping bbc. Due to have a cock that becme rock hard at the drop of a dime, leaves me horny 24/7. During sex i can cum 2 to4 large lords and still remain hard. My biggest fetish is white women with nice ass, that enjoy anal play, haveing their assholes licked and eating right before a great section of anal sex. Ladies lets chat
10/13/2019
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Dom Seeking Newbie Sub!
I am seeking a long term newbie to train and serve my desires! I am experienced,knowledgeable and looking for a live in sub. I am in the Massachusetts area,so location is important,but not impossible if your willing to relocate. I am a daddy and looking for newbies who need a daddy Dom. I am strictly firm,but fair. I demand obedience,but a loving daddy,who will take care of his daddy duties! Tell me about what you seek and why,to see if we are a match!
10/13/2019
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I’m New to This
Hiya there, I’m Bear, I’m 21. I’m gonna kill two birds with one stone with this ad. To clarify, I am looking to be in some sort of kinky/bdsm relationship, I’m also looking for anyone who will give me tips and lessons on how to go about being a sub.
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A little about me, I’m very geeky and nerdy, I love video games, editing, coding. I’m not the quickest at replying to messages (I know that’s a deal breaker for some). I’m very open about my mental health. I administrate a very large hentai/porn server on discord. I’m pretty fluffy, BBW if you will. I am a big advocate for eating healthy and avoiding a lot of junky food.
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I am very new to BDSM, but I know I’m a switch, but more submissive than dominant, like 80/20. I was originally under the impression I wanted to be someone’s sub right now but I’m realizing I’m not just yet ready for that. I do want to be in a relationship where I am primarily the submissive one, and sex isn’t something that isn’t talked about.
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I would love anyone that is either looking for something similar to message me. Or someone who would like to give me tips and help on being a submissive in the BDSM world!
10/13/2019
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What I have to offer
There's a certain trend with these ads. They always solicit in search of something else, what the poster wants out of a partner. While there's nothing wrong with this, and it can certainly be quite effective, let's take a different approach. I'd like to list what I believe I bring to the table in a relationship. Granted, I might be a biased source, but I'll do my best to stay as accurate and honest as possible.

First, I'm certain of what I'm looking for, and what I'm open to. The best descriptor for me would be a switch, but with a certain caveat. I *don't* need a relationship where the power dynamic actively shifts. What I do need, however, is a relationship built on trust, communication, and emotional support for both involved. Whether my role in this relationship is Dominant or submissive, I'll be happy. I'm also open to something long distance, and I have the patience necessary to make long distance work.

Second, I have experience. While there's definitely more seasoned veterans in the lifestyle, I have put in seven years. You definitely won't have to deal with the growing pains of someone who's only just now discovered it.

Third, I bring creativity to the table. I'm an erotica author. It's par for the course.

Fourth, and probably most importantly, I have excellent conflict de-escalation skills. I'm quite talented at bringing people down from an argument, and talking about their problems and why they feel the way they do. As you can expect, this gets a lot of mileage when it comes to romantic relationships.

While I certainly thing I have more than four positive traits, I need to leave some things for you to learn. My profile has more on my limits, and what I'm looking for specifically. If what I've shared sounds like a partner you'd be interested in, I look forward to hearing from you.
10/13/2019
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Looking for a sub
Hi there. I am looking for 24/7 true sub who is ready to explore bdsm lifestyle in it's true sense. A sub who is ready to do anything(well within your limits) vto please me(dom). A sub whose lifestyle would be controlled by me apart from the time in action. If you think you are interested, just drop me a message
10/13/2019
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Younger Dom Seeks Submissive Woman/Trans
Younger Dom Seeks Submissive
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this. I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a PM. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too. A little about me: I am 20 years old, slim build,with a deep voice living in the DC area I have experience both in person and online and have had submissives from as far away as Australia and it worked out so really anywhere is fine. I am a massive gamer and nerd so being my submissive means you will need to put up with that. I also do volunteer work, fist aid training, and I make lovely audios you can have a look at on my profile. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it's a side of intimacy I think gets overlooked in the BDSM community. My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. Always wanted to use a remote controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that. What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, ages 18-40 (will discuss older), respectful , caring, someone who can be both my best friend, my lover, and my little fuck toy. Limits: Ageplay, rape, kidnapping, significant abuse (ask me about it), blood (bruises and scratches are fine), needles. Feel free to ask me about any of these. I am a flexible dominant and so I really like to get to know my submissives so I can be the type of Dominant they need me to be. If you made it this far thank you again, please send me a PM even if you aren't interested and just have a question or want to talk. Have a nice day!
10/13/2019
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Switch mommy needed
I’m a daddy Dom who has a little sub. We want a switch mommy to join our play. Must have little hands and be willing to suckle.
10/12/2019
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Texas - Ropes and other fun
Texas nerdy types Dom Male - Switch Female seeking a female companion, would like a TPE, but a sub would work nicely as well. We are not seeking long term a the moment, and are not poly in any way. We are just kinky and both like BDSM. We are a very nerdy again, books, video games, anime. If this interests you we are in the north Texas area and looking for drug free, disease free, drama free. Inquire to learn more =)
10/12/2019
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Iso dominate mistress/ master
Hi I'm Michelle Scott toilet slut slave whore pig for humiliation domination embarrassment sissyfication blackmail exposure cbt vacuum pumping my kunt pet breeding gangbangs cross dressing bdsm cum/ piss/ poo swallowing group humiliation all on video to use against me and make me your BITCH hehee PLEEEAAASE im begging for a dom to feminize me into ruin
10/12/2019
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Couple looking for submissive women
Threesome
10/12/2019
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Wife of Couple Looking for Mistress
Hello. I am looking for a Mistress for myself (or a switch). I am a new sub that would like to have a Mistress control me and teach me. Preferably one that would let my husband watch and possibly join in the fun as well.
I am into choking, spanking, edging, bondage, breast and nipple play, public play, use of toys, other kinks that can be discussed upon...limits can also be discussed.
Looking for something casual but could also be a regular thing if you are the right person.
We are both in our mid 20s would prefer someone close to same age. Any questions please let me know.
If you are in the central Ohio area please come control me. Punish me when I'm a naughty girl. Teach me how to better serve my Mistress and my husband.
10/12/2019
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sugarray69.
Hi im Ray i live alone at Edgeworth Newcastle n.s.w.im a sub switch seek mistress for fun sessionsRay
10/11/2019
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Foot photo shoot
I am a male foot photographer looking to work with females from the baltimore and surrounding areas
10/11/2019
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Call me whore.
New sub desperate to be used for your pleasure. Call me whore, slut, fucktoy..ravage my holes, choke me, slap me, tie me up.. I want you to have your way with me sexually. If interested, message me saying what you want to do with me..won’t respond without a pic.
10/11/2019
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D/s couple seeking female sub
D/s couple seeking 40+ bisexual female sub in Chicago, IL or Los Angeles, CA area to join me and my MASTER for occasional play dates. She must be someone open to tease & please U/us both. A great sense of humor is preferable.
10/10/2019
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Big cock 11inch 2inches
Come and have fun
10/10/2019
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