Playing with no Committment

When I was younger and just coming onto the scene I thought that ‘no commitment’ sounded like fun, but I also hadn’t really explored the nuances of polyamory and didn’t realize that ‘commitment’ and ‘ ...

Thu Sep 28, 2023 6:19 pm • 34 Replies • 3280 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Mine is more of a personal goal than anything else, lol.

Wed Jan 12, 2022 5:30 am • 267 Replies • 95024 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

For me it's always been messages that make a lot of presuppositions, or otherwise skip any proper introduction. Like if we haven't agreed on titles, don't open your message to me with "Hey slut" and d ...

Thu Jan 06, 2022 11:46 pm • 119 Replies • 24558 Views

wax preference

In my somewhat limited experience with wax play, most of the pillar candles with the tall glass tubes (the one's that sometimes have all the religious iconography on them) fit the description of what ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 6:44 am • 6 Replies • 2259 Views

Why Block conversation?

I've seen plenty of people who hide behind 'dominance' as an excuse for their otherwise shitty behavior. The whole 'cutting off communication' thing in particular really bothers me though. I watched a ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 6:37 am • 18 Replies • 5341 Views

Sex slave trade

Bdsm is slso illegal.

He isnt talking about non consensual sex trade.

I'm pretty sure BDSM isn't illegal in the states... also, no one can unconditionally give up all of their rights, they obvi ...

Tue Oct 29, 2019 7:31 am • 20 Replies • 14083 Views

Forced Bi-sexual Encounters

Listen, anything that is really and truly forced in any sexual context is BIG bad. No grey line, just flat out unacceptable. Now if it's part of some scene or discussion that's been had between two co ...

Mon Sep 02, 2019 10:05 pm • 39 Replies • 29573 Views

What does Politics have with being a “good” sub or friend

Everybody wants to respect personal limits, lifestyle choices etc, but then people get BIG MAD at the mention of politics. When someone decides to save people that they simply won't vibe with time, ba ...

Tue Aug 20, 2019 1:03 am • 21 Replies • 7440 Views

Trump Supporters

Under what pretext do ya'll think a queer leftist is ever going to be able to avoid politics long enough to develop a relationship with someone whose views diametrically oppose theirs?
This is just c ...

Wed Jul 03, 2019 12:44 am • 99 Replies • 26450 Views

Trump Supporters

https://www.thedailybeast.com/president-trumps-anti-lgbt-agenda-is-louder-than-his-pride-message

Tue Jul 02, 2019 6:26 am • 99 Replies • 26450 Views