Could you give it up?

I was in a LTR for 6 years with someone who was completely vanilla... It was a side of me I kept hidden for a very long time before I talked to him about it. I tried to ease him into the lifestyle as ...

Fri Jul 01, 2022 7:34 pm • 27 Replies • 4454 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

When a "dom" will go WAY overboard on the message. Writes me a mile long message about what he wants to do to me... Sexual messages in general make me roll my eyes if I haven't been talking to you for ...

Sat Nov 06, 2021 12:14 pm • 119 Replies • 24548 Views

First few days/weeks

I actually LOVE that. I would kill for something like that... so natural.

Sun Oct 31, 2021 3:03 am • 21 Replies • 4959 Views

First few days/weeks

When under consideration what does the relationship look like for the first few days/weeks...
I know everyone's looks different I'm just curious is there a protocol? What kind of red flags to look fo ...

Sat Oct 30, 2021 7:27 am • 21 Replies • 4959 Views

Green Flags

Oh wow... Literally love this!

I have several...

Takes their time getting to know me, not in a rush.

Goes out of their way to message me and let me know they're thinking about me.

Good ...

Sun Jun 20, 2021 10:12 pm • 21 Replies • 6574 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

14, when I first discovered BDSM and watching the videos I did, I found myself desiring to be the person serving, submitting, sitting at the feet of another person, receiving the punishment.

Sat Feb 13, 2021 7:15 am • 95 Replies • 26686 Views

He's crazy... But then again, so am I.

It's utter bliss to say the least... Yeah I figured that out when I posted it. I'm still new to the site, so I'm learning!!

Fri Feb 05, 2021 2:43 am • 3 Replies • 1647 Views

He's crazy... But then again, so am I.

So, I have been talking to this man for the couple of days. Pretty much non-stop even at work, and there is something about him that makes me nervous, intimidated, and mostly excited. Most men, do not ...

Fri Feb 05, 2021 1:11 am • 3 Replies • 1647 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Clutch

Wed Feb 03, 2021 8:18 pm • 6668 Replies • 1034282 Views

Am I wrong? If so, tell me.

Thank you so much for responding! I have been stepping out of my comfort zone, but I dont know if some of these men are really who they say are. Does that make sense? And they're not really willing to ...

Wed Feb 03, 2021 1:10 am • 11 Replies • 4762 Views