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Is BDSM an induced illusion or a concealed reality?

I think this is a complex question and I will do my best to answer.

I think BDSM is a very natural expression of sexuality and deep psychological desires more than environment or exposure [to porn] ...

Fri Aug 28, 2026 12:02 am • 8 Replies • 404 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is BDSM an induced illusion or a concealed reality?

Dominant responsibility when ending a D/s and Daddy/little dynamic but not clearly ending it

Yes, I have been through something similar; however, my partner was transparent from the start. It was in hindsight that I acknowledged my own assumptions, hope and naivity that took me to a place of ...

Tue Aug 25, 2026 3:54 pm • 12 Replies • 560 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Dominant responsibility when ending a D/s and Daddy/little dynamic but not clearly ending it

Best Glycerine Free Rimming Lube

I really like Bed Intentions ‘Water Based Lubricant’. It’s an Australian company. I haven’t used it for rimming with my tongue, but I love the sensation and it’s high quality

Sat Aug 08, 2026 1:51 am • 8 Replies • 715 Views

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A Cloud

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Equipment & Toys

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Best Glycerine Free Rimming Lube

What makes a person safe?

As I understand it, all previous responders have indicated that actions and words demonstrating consistent reliability and honesty, fostered trust, appreciation, respect, understanding and accountabil ...

Thu Jul 30, 2026 2:48 am • 17 Replies • 954 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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What makes a person safe?

What do you.....?

The layers and depths that it has taken me to; the beauty of experience in being able to go to such vulnerable places, and the intimacy and strength that comes from that; the awe of being part of some ...

Fri Jul 24, 2026 7:21 am • 28 Replies • 2393 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you.....?

Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

It’s a very painful and long journey to gain trust with yourself and others after experiencing relationship trauma. I imagine you must feel torn with wanting to let go and be cherished but finding it ...

Wed May 27, 2026 12:32 pm • 12 Replies • 1503 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

10 questions

I’m just going to respond to Questions 1, which is similar to previous responses.

The interplay between nature and nurture is in itself a chemistry. Listening to a podcast I heard the term “tempera ...

Fri May 22, 2026 9:55 am • 5 Replies • 831 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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10 questions

Q&A

I believe Alfred Lord Tennyson said it best “Tis better to be the spanker then to be spanked”.

I enthusiastically disagree and I highly recommend the being spanked, and much, much more receiving. B ...

Fri May 15, 2026 3:07 pm • 12 Replies • 1096 Views

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A Cloud

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Just for Fun

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Q&A

Just 7 questions that are both fun and that will make you think.

1. Putting on clothes, like at all

2. Making decisions. I fantasise about getting to a point where I’m completely present in my body - all feeling and wonder. I’m fascinated with the idea of disapp ...

Fri May 15, 2026 2:32 pm • 4 Replies • 531 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Just 7 questions that are both fun and that will make you think.

Q&A

The ease with which I just fell into submission and the peace and joy I felt from it. There is a reason my profile picture is floating in water; that’s the feeling I get: freedom. What I had to learn ...

Thu May 14, 2026 12:31 pm • 12 Replies • 1096 Views

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A Cloud

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Just for Fun

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Q&A