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Early Days / your Process

I’m a little confused about whether you are talking about negotiations prior to forming a dynamic or after.

I definitely think all people should have an understanding of their wants, needs and lim ...

Tue Apr 28, 2026 1:03 am • 10 Replies • 1803 Views

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A Cloud

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Maledom

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Early Days / your Process

5 Questions

1.) What are the 3 most important values for you in a D/s relationship?

Connection (alignment, belonging, open & honest communication)
Respect (based on trust)
Fulfilling (in that the dynamic ...

Tue Apr 14, 2026 7:54 am • 8 Replies • 1599 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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5 Questions

Age play

Great explanation from fluffypoppet.

I recommend listening to podcasts like ‘Pink Kink’ and ‘Loving BDSM’, who have good episodes on specific kinks like Ageplay.

Mon Apr 13, 2026 2:04 pm • 2 Replies • 614 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Age play

What about forced bi ?

Never tried forced bi, just MFF without the forced part. I do get permission (with conditions) to hit on girls I’m interested in. Under particular and somewhat varied circumstances, I could see myself ...

Fri Apr 10, 2026 1:44 pm • 25 Replies • 4764 Views

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A Cloud

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Fetish

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What about forced bi ?

Who Pays: Sex Toys

It’s pretty simple for me, If I want something, I might think on it, discuss it and/or buy it, depending on circumstances. I go in with a demeanour of self-sufficiency and an openness of giving and re ...

Fri Apr 10, 2026 1:15 pm • 14 Replies • 2132 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Who Pays: Sex Toys

Outfit control

Love it. I’ve never felt (and looked) so beautiful as I do with the current control over my appearance. He has a particular perspective that I cannot see for myself.

And within appearance and outf ...

Sun Mar 15, 2026 4:13 am • 12 Replies • 4161 Views

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A Cloud

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Fetish

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Outfit control

Subsbace

Thanks, MissBonnie, such an insightful and informative response.

Tue Mar 03, 2026 10:55 am • 10 Replies • 1838 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Subsbace

Getting slapped in the face with a Dick

Don’t know without doing some kind of qualitative research. Speaking from what little experience I do have, it depends on context, intention, interrelations and state of mind at the time.

Also, I h ...

Tue Mar 03, 2026 10:52 am • 11 Replies • 2617 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Getting slapped in the face with a Dick

Submission, discipline, and structure without domestic service (seeking perspectives) -LONG POST-

My observations and understanding is different. I see many variations of dynamics. I understand it is a ‘best fit’ alignment of two people that complement each other. Some people approach it knowing e ...

Fri Feb 13, 2026 3:08 am • 6 Replies • 1453 Views

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A Cloud

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Absolute Beginners

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Submission, discipline, and structure without domestic service (seeking perspectives) -LONG POST-

Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Okay, I believe I have a better understanding now. It took a while to process it all as it is seemingly not so easy to define and there are variations in understanding.

From what I interpreted, the ...

Thu Jan 08, 2026 1:11 am • 9 Replies • 1718 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm