Must have toys

I have about 4 toys picked but what are some must have toys either for my partner to enjoy me using on him or vice versa during play time. I’d like to slowly get him to bondage(I know he knows his knots🥵) but I don’t want to overwhelm him and just throw rope at him lmao

Massage oils and pleasure lubes for him

Practice learning to please him with your mouth. To suck harder and take him deeper. Let him thrust in there hard and always swallow with a smile

Anal beads and vibes to tease his tight hole

Set of hog-tie cuffs with extra chain and clips. Rope is boring

Adjustable speed vibrating massager. Turns a orgasm into... AN ORGASM.. !!

So much depends on what you are both in to and other factors like budget. The beautiful thing is the possibilities are endless. It helps to fill out a good kink list and figure out your most favoured kinks.

Speaking of bondage and restraints, I once had a partner who sent me out to the hardware store all desperate and dripping with “Daddy’s shopping list”. It was such a giddy shopping trip. He also made me go buy just a cucumber from a service girl I had a crush on, so yeah, you can get really innovative. Another good one that I picked up from The Cage was the ice dildo - just fill a condom up with water and put it in the freezer. There’s so many more and even podcasts and articles about pervertables. Great for your toolbox 😉.

Alton Brown has a prefect answer to the question of "What is the best knife to use in the kitchen?"

"Whatever one feels good to you."

Same goes with sex toys. Nothing is a must have.