Either, Or

Bunnie: lose sense of taste. Because well..sex!

MissBonnie: lose ability of arms. I have hug with my legs but I cant walk on my hands .

Would you rather see but never hear or hear and neve ...

Fri Jul 12, 2019 9:09 am • 24 Replies • 10437 Views

On the subject of safewords & punishments

If and big if the punishment is outside the limits or actually beyond the capability then I would say okay. Not that the punishment isnt going to happen just brought back to within the scope that they ...

Sat Jun 01, 2019 12:11 am • 13 Replies • 9387 Views

making new friends in a new state

I'm going out on a limb here and take it you mean how to find lifestyle friends.
Start by finding where they are in your area. Find munches and groups. This site hasn't built up much in posting of ev ...

Tue May 28, 2019 9:36 am • 6 Replies • 3462 Views

D/s and M/s contracts

@MasterBear

I am sorry if that has been your experience in the past. I have found just the opposite in contracts.

For your points:
1. Depending on the dynamic that could be the point of the c ...

Thu May 16, 2019 6:13 am • 20 Replies • 10393 Views

Is it probable

Being up front and honest with all involved is key. Sounds like you have a good foundation for that to succeed and continue with the open communication with your husband. Carry that through with any P ...

Thu May 16, 2019 5:50 am • 22 Replies • 12099 Views

D/s and M/s contracts

Not knowing your experience I am going to take a step back.

A contract is actually the final step of a multi step process, if your not looking to be in yo yo relationship/dynamics.

First is figu ...

Wed May 15, 2019 4:42 am • 20 Replies • 10393 Views

The feeling of mutation...

Mutating or evolving into...good description.

What I am reading is that you began vanilla, didnt want to inflict pain/felt pain in causing pain but consented to please her. (Sadomasochism)

It s ...

Tue May 14, 2019 8:59 pm • 2 Replies • 2712 Views

Anyone know how i can subconsciously convince my wife to become my sub?

Subconsciously? No.

What you can do is keep communicating what you feel and need. You can try to find a middle ground or compromise.

Will it work? 50/50...

Look up Dosey Easton book :
When ...

Mon May 13, 2019 7:35 am • 22 Replies • 13915 Views

Permission

"We are all adults, and should be able to enjoy this lifestyle without needing to debase others to the point of asking permission to..."

Yes, you're correct and if two grown adults want to enter in ...

Mon May 13, 2019 7:13 am • 34 Replies • 17716 Views

Permission

For someone who claims years in the community I find it odd you say this is new to you...that said. Part of what I think you are missing is that you view it from the simple understanding of one human ...

Sun May 12, 2019 7:17 am • 34 Replies • 17716 Views