Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

1. Contracts should be used by experienced individuals looking to finalize the terms of their commitment to each other, not to initialize an itinerary.
2. Talk is cheap. Gain what info you can from ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 5:13 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

fandan
2 hours ago • 08/29/2021 5:38 am
Ingénue wrote: It's fun when a Dom gets ranty at sound advice.

------ "I think you might struggle to find any rants in my posts."

** Oh let me help y ...

Mon Aug 30, 2021 5:13 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

It's fun when a Dom gets ranty at sound advice.

Here's hoping the OP can read and learn from both what he agrees with as well as what challenges his current perspective.

Pity his allegedly 'exp ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 12:38 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I'm not sorry for my opinion. The only thing I'm sorry for is that I'm not giving it to the submissive in this instance instead of the Dominant.

I was her. I entered into a dynamic with someone tha ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 12:21 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I'm sorry. You aren't going to like my answer to your questions but I am going to post my opinion anyway.

I feel from reading your post that you don't quite know yourself yet and are still coming t ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 12:14 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

More elitist, judgemental patronising nonsense.

fandan

"I don't believe it is simple. nothing in my post infers this conclusion nor can I see where you have taken this from."

(From your plug-n-play approach to this and the way you formed you ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 11:42 am • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

Thank you so much Miki, that was really insightful and useful.

Sat Aug 28, 2021 5:40 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

Thanks very much for your comprehensive and detailed response.

Surely you can plan this like a project (initially) if it fits within both parties dynamic? This also fits our proposed play scenario ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 5:22 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I had a few queries about the Dom sub dynamic that I would like some experiential advice on please. Ive just copied my intro post here:

Hi There,

I am a recent 'convert' to BDSM & Kink.

I ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 3:39 pm • 24 Replies • 8448 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi There,

I am a recent 'convert' to BDSM & Kink.

I say 'convert', but its always been inside me, I just hadn't realised it yet.

I met someone recently who is a sub, and we have made an ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 3:29 pm • 3055 Replies • 889676 Views